Should I warn my friend?

[Titch85]

A friend of mine (C) is a soldier, he was based in Germany but was moved back to the UK. He had a German girlfriend but he told us she didn't want to move to the UK with him so they split up, but remain friends.

My best friend (L) has a bit of a crush on C, we've all been out together, they text 24/7, and are on about meeting up and going out on their own.

Now today I was on FB, and my newsfeed showed some comments between his ex and his mum. They were talking about if the ex had any joy finding a job here, that maybe she should just move anyway and his Mum was hinting about the two of them getting married.

Should I warn my friend or should I just stay out of it?

 

[HopesDreams]

That's always a tough one but if I was L, then I personally would want you to give me the heads up Titch.

 

[linxminx21]

me to i wouldnt want to know that hed made a fool of me and you had kinda known something... just do it nicely maybe... good luck hun x

 

[russellmuscle]

Snap, just bring it up in convo about urs two friends txtin etc and mention what u seen on fb.

I'd want to know xxxxx

 

[lisey]

It is a tricky one but if my best friend knew this info I would want her to tell me and I would be upset if I found out she knew and didnt tell me.
What an awkward situation for you though hun x

 

[Titch85]

I told her via text last night, she was a bit sad and annoyed with herself, she feels he's not been honest about his relationship status, and feels she's a bit of a mug for getting involved. She can't even ask him about it because he's out on a training exercise for 10 days and can't be contacted.

 

[HopesDreams]

If I were her I wouldn't even confront him about it but then I'm a mule & probably don't always handle things in the best way. I'd just wash my hands of the situation & walk away.

 

[Titch85]

I think she just wants to get it off her chest.

 

[HopesDreams]

Of course she does. Like I said, I dont always handle things as best as I can.

 

[littlemonkey]

To be fair, just cos his mum is communicating with his ex and by the sounds of it trying to arrange a reconcilation, doesn't mean he is! I know you've already told her, but I'd leave it between them to sort out now.

 

[BevG]

id ask him when hes back whats up? tell her to be honest with him and ask him about it