choklatemunky
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Testing day is fast approaching Shell - I really do have my fingers crossed for you.... 
Shell's TTC Diary - *IVF/ICSI* - BFP!!!!
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13 Days After EC
I gave in and tested this morning, unfortunately it was BFN. I cant see it changing by tomorrow as there wasn't any kind of a line, no matter how hard i looked!
I'm just so upset and fed up at the moment. I cant imagine this ever working and now i've got to go through it all over again.
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I gave in and tested this morning, unfortunately it was BFN. I cant see it changing by tomorrow as there wasn't any kind of a line, no matter how hard i looked!
I'm just so upset and fed up at the moment. I cant imagine this ever working and now i've got to go through it all over again.X
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Oh sweetheart - Im sorry - but its not over til its over.....
Also You are now at the top of the NHS waiting list so you prob wont have to wait too long - I understand it must be hard with all the processes you have to go through and all the drugs and tests etc but it will all be worth it in the end when you are holding your LO which WILL happen for you.
Big Hugs
Also You are now at the top of the NHS waiting list so you prob wont have to wait too long - I understand it must be hard with all the processes you have to go through and all the drugs and tests etc but it will all be worth it in the end when you are holding your LO which WILL happen for you.
Big Hugs
I am so sorry to read this I was hoping so much for you it would work this time you deserve it! But I agree its not over til its over some people take longer to show positive on a test hoping for a little miracle for you! 
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It could still be too early to test. Good luck for tomorrow. Glad you have your NHS place too.
Good luck for tomorrow. Glad you have your NHS place too. 
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I'm still gonna hold out for tomorrows test result....i don't believe its a BFN really.
Someone I know just had an IVF cycle they tested 2 days ago and BFN, tested this morning and BFP
there is still hope
Someone I know just had an IVF cycle they tested 2 days ago and BFN, tested this morning and BFP
there is still hope
14 Days After EC - 
Official Test Day!!!!!!
Thank you all so much for all your support. Although i am hoping and praying that it was too early, i think i know deep down that it just hasn't worked. I think it is just the progesterone keeping AF away at the moment.
DH has gone to the clinic to get the test done. I couldn't ace it again. Even though i know the result, i still think i will cry as soon as the nurse says it.
I think he is so brave to go on his own and i was worried that it was a bit unair as i'm sure its hurting him as well. But he said i have to do most of the horrible stuff with the IVF so its only fair that he does this for me. Which i thought was very sweet, it doesn't stop me feeling guilty though!
He has also gone there armed with questions. I have my free NHS attempt coming up, but i still think it will be quite a few months beore we get to start. Which i dont mind as i'm not sure if i can cope with doing another cycle straight away. So i would like to have a break from IVF but not from TTC. I think it will drive me mad if i feel like we're not doing anything. So....he is going to ask if they would be willing (bearing in mind that we are paying for everything) to give me something to regulate me, such as clomid. Even though the NHS dont see any point at least if i am ovulating we do have a better chance even with the low sperm count. I hope they understand the point that we're trying to make. I dont see why there should be a problem, we are willing to pay for the drugs and scans. But we will see. If not, i guess it will be straight back in to IVF and i won't bother with a break.
He is also finding out whether there is anyway that we would be able to get our NHS go with them. I know that people from worcestershire PCT get refered to my clinic for their NHS treatment, but we need to find out if they have ever treated anyone funded by Birmingham PCT. Since my treatment doesn't seem to go to plan and i feel like my clinic know me best, i'm hoping we have a good case for transfering our funding to them. I really dont like the thought of going else where. Plus the NHS hospital i will have to be treated at has below average results!!
There are loads of other stuff i want to know, such as how a frozen cycle works for when we want to use our 6 frosties.....but i may as well go through everything on here once i have the answers otherwise i'll be repeating myself!
Sorry for such a rambling post, hope i dont send everyone to sleep!!
Back later with the official result..............
Michelle x
Official Test Day!!!!!! Thank you all so much for all your support. Although i am hoping and praying that it was too early, i think i know deep down that it just hasn't worked. I think it is just the progesterone keeping AF away at the moment.
DH has gone to the clinic to get the test done. I couldn't ace it again. Even though i know the result, i still think i will cry as soon as the nurse says it.
I think he is so brave to go on his own and i was worried that it was a bit unair as i'm sure its hurting him as well. But he said i have to do most of the horrible stuff with the IVF so its only fair that he does this for me. Which i thought was very sweet, it doesn't stop me feeling guilty though!He has also gone there armed with questions. I have my free NHS attempt coming up, but i still think it will be quite a few months beore we get to start. Which i dont mind as i'm not sure if i can cope with doing another cycle straight away. So i would like to have a break from IVF but not from TTC. I think it will drive me mad if i feel like we're not doing anything. So....he is going to ask if they would be willing (bearing in mind that we are paying for everything) to give me something to regulate me, such as clomid. Even though the NHS dont see any point at least if i am ovulating we do have a better chance even with the low sperm count. I hope they understand the point that we're trying to make. I dont see why there should be a problem, we are willing to pay for the drugs and scans. But we will see. If not, i guess it will be straight back in to IVF and i won't bother with a break.
He is also finding out whether there is anyway that we would be able to get our NHS go with them. I know that people from worcestershire PCT get refered to my clinic for their NHS treatment, but we need to find out if they have ever treated anyone funded by Birmingham PCT. Since my treatment doesn't seem to go to plan and i feel like my clinic know me best, i'm hoping we have a good case for transfering our funding to them. I really dont like the thought of going else where. Plus the NHS hospital i will have to be treated at has below average results!!
There are loads of other stuff i want to know, such as how a frozen cycle works for when we want to use our 6 frosties.....but i may as well go through everything on here once i have the answers otherwise i'll be repeating myself!
Sorry for such a rambling post, hope i dont send everyone to sleep!!
Back later with the official result..............
Michelle x
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Thinking of you.
I have so much admiration for you and your DH, I am pleased he is so supportive of you, he sounds very caring.
I have so much admiration for you and your DH, I am pleased he is so supportive of you, he sounds very caring.
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