Sex

[littlemuffin]

This is on one of the other pages. But I though I Would bring it up...

Are you having any? I thought to be safe we wouldn't, as they said it can cause bleeding and cramping after, does that hurt the baby? Also I know if I saw a tiny amount of blood I would panic and worry. So someone tell me is it bad, as I need some ( tmi) I can't stop thinking about it!

 

[x_larlybelle_x]

We have carried on as normal, I've not had any cramping or bleeding and scan today showed baby was fine just enjoy urself. I've set DH a few rules like being gentle, stoppin if I say stop and generally being careful. don't know if I could go without

 

[hugsy]

I couldnt get enough for the first 3 days after I found out but since then not a feckin chance its the last thing i want, I feel so guilty for my poor DH but completly lost all sex drive not even the tineyst bit left nothing haha, Hopeing it comes back when the nausea goes but if and when we do it it will be gentle and defo stop if i say stop, Boobies are allready a no go there so sore so that rule will prob be staying too hehe, God pregnancy makes me horrible LOL

 

[pinkyprincess]

I hate to say this but I'm in tri 2 and I lost the 'urge' in tri 1 and haven't got it back yet. OH hasn't been very understanding so have had to make myself do it to keep him happy but when it comes to wanting to, just doesn't interest me!

 

[BevG]

i do it and have done since i found out, if i wanna or if OH wants to, its fine as long as no major acrobatics are involved. its just that the big o can cause spasms and crampy feelings. mine did once and OMG it hurt lol but its been fine since.

 

[Mummy_Mel]

My husband and I have carried on as normal. Sometimes I get a bit of pain after intercourse but not had any bleeding and baby is fine

 

[Lilelephant]

I am the same as pinkyprincess he he

 

[JensBump]

I have been carrying on as normal - the big O makes me feel a wee bit sick and I have to lie still for a while after but no pain and no bleeding - saw baby on Tuesday and all is well I couldn't do without I am worse than OH LOL

 

[l_maclean]

I'm being cruel - we've done it once since I found out 5 weeks ago. That was mostly because I had mc in jan and was terrified it would happen again (although fairly certain that wasnt sex related) - managed once when i got passed the mc date - but the DH when off-shore with work and by time he came back I was in full throws of nausea period - so he's not getting any while I'm fighting the urge to be sick.

x

 

[x.Lilly.x]

I know it is safe to carry on but i can't help thinking it cant be as his winky goes so close to the bubba lol
But it doesnt matter as i dont want it at all atm, id rather sleep. OH isnt a happy bunny but ah well he has a hand
I'm hoping after 12 weeks ill feel more up for it and not as worried but to answer your question it is totally fine, just up to you if you do or not hun x