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Errrrrr whos still doing it? Lol :whistle:

I think im just trying to see if me and OH are normal because people i know seem to have carried on as normal in the bedroom and our sex life is like a distant memory!

At first it was my OH who felt weird about when i first found out i was pregnant and so we only did it once or twice in the first few months, and now i couldnt dream of doing it as my little one is ery active and always moving and kicking and it feels like he would be watching lol!

I cant bloody wait to have sex again after babys born!!!!!!!! :oooo:
 
My sex drive left completely in second tri, but then me and OH were at it like rabbits in third :blush: it could change hun, I felt a bit weird doing it when I began to feel baby kick too.. Its great getting close to your OH after baby is born, you feel so much more connected x
 
1st and 2nd tri werent a problem for me and hubby but the 3rd tri sex drive has totally done one and trying to get into any sort of position thats comfortable is impossible!!!
 
Just for laughs, it wasn't all plain sailing! I tried to get on top while he was sitting on the edge of the bed :rofl: I'm suprised I didn't start beeping when I tried to "reverse", probably the most unattractive thing I have ever done! Needless to say, sex went out the window and we both laughed at the shape of me trying to do it :lol: :lol:

Nat, on your side I'd probably the most intimate and comfortable in third tri x
 
I tried to get on top while he was sitting on the edge of the bed :rofl: I'm suprised I didn't start beeping when I tried to "reverse", probably the most unattractive thing I have ever done! Needless to say, sex went out the window and we both laughed at the shape of me trying to do it :lol: :lol:

:lol: lol love this!

Me and OH had a giggle last night when i asked him to take my big ugly bump support band off and rub some bio oil on my impending stretchmarks - he didnt agree that it counted as foreplay! :roll:
 
It so counts as foreplay in tri 2! :lol: wait until he has to start putting your socks and shoes on! ;) :lol: x
 
I feel so horrible for DH, but we STILL haven't had any since finding out. :( Brings me to the verge of tears thinking about as poor DH has been a trooper, but I just can't seem to get in the mood. Up until 18 weeks I was horrible sick feeling all the time, then I had a two week window of bliss, then the horrible back pain started and continues to this day.

Any of you like me out there?
 
I feel so horrible for DH, but we STILL haven't had any since finding out. :( Brings me to the verge of tears thinking about as poor DH has been a trooper, but I just can't seem to get in the mood. Up until 18 weeks I was horrible sick feeling all the time, then I had a two week window of bliss, then the horrible back pain started and continues to this day.

Any of you like me out there?

Almost like u Tipper! We did it twice in the first Tri and once in the second, nothing since and im 30 weeks tomorrow!!! I did 'sort him out' the night before last tho and felt like the good samaratian! Don't think I'll be DTD until I'm trying to bring on labour!!!
 
I feel so horrible for DH, but we STILL haven't had any since finding out. :( Brings me to the verge of tears thinking about as poor DH has been a trooper, but I just can't seem to get in the mood. Up until 18 weeks I was horrible sick feeling all the time, then I had a two week window of bliss, then the horrible back pain started and continues to this day.

Any of you like me out there?

Weve only done it twice since we found out i dont think we will be doing it again whilst im still pregnant. I wouldnt feel bad about it hun! If i could swap all the pain and misery pregnancy has caused me the last 6-7 months with just not having sex for a while i bloody would! Men dont know how great they have it!! x
 
We hardly ever do nowadays, I'm so exhausted & he doesnt really fancy being puked on :( its doing my head in tho & Im so paranoid hell go elsewhere! Esp as we used to be at it like rabbits (sorry TMI!) x
 
! I did 'sort him out' the night before last tho and felt like the good samaratian! Don't think I'll be DTD until I'm trying to bring on labour!!!


Sorry to quote you on just that part, but that had me laughing! Perhaps it is time for me to step up to the plate and do a good deed for once also. :lol:

And thank you girls! I really do feel awful about the no lovin' going on, but it does help to realize that I'm note alone in this.
 
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Just for laughs, it wasn't all plain sailing! I tried to get on top while he was sitting on the edge of the bed :rofl: I'm suprised I didn't start beeping when I tried to "reverse", probably the most unattractive thing I have ever done! Needless to say, sex went out the window and we both laughed at the shape of me trying to do it :lol: :lol:

Nat, on your side I'd probably the most intimate and comfortable in third tri x


Thanks hun, we have tried spooning but i ended up crying like a big girl. Hubbys leg is in this contraption.....

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So things are really really awkward and i just cant do on top anymore xxx
 
Haha, we mostly did the deed for the first time since BFP last week, but he was a bit frightened by the bump to really let go so we gave up after a bit! Think that'll be it until after she's here unless hormones rage or we're trying to encourage things along at due date time now!
 
Omg your poor OH! Looks v sore, can understand the crying! :lol: its hard enough to find someway comfy without that threw into the mix X
 
We have only done it a handful of times since we found out...doesn't feel the same knowing theres a baby in my belly lol xxx
 
Oh my am I the only one still having sex??? Got told not to have it by Doctor cause of my low placenta and bleeding and had to go 3 weeks without it but we both even found that hard!! xx
 
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You're not the only one still having sex amandapanda! We haven't stopped. OH is a little bit unsure, not totally happy with the thought that the baby will 'hear' things. But I found a way to distract him! Lol! I just couldn't go without it. A week is the longest we have gone. Having to be a little bit more inventive because of the bump though!

Xx
 
We are still very much having sex :)
First tri we only did it a couple of times because of how sick I felt (standing up was hard let alone any other movements lol)
But since the sickness has gone we have been having a great time, I am so stupidly horny it's unbelievable, some days it's all I can think about :) lol I barely even said hello to him when I got home the other night.....needless to say hubby is loving it :D
He always says sorry to my bump afterwards which I think is so cute
 
We haven't had any since finding out I was pregnant. I have been up for it a few times but then OH is a bit scared about having sex when I'm pregnant. I think I am going to just have to wait until baby arrives. xx
 

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