Hello! First I want to say thanks for your help and opinions! On November 1st I found out I was pregnant. I have been with the same guy for 8 years (not married) but I never loved him and one day I was going to leave him. I met someone and fell in love but I was too scared so I did not leave yet. Anyways, My last period was September 29th which was the first day. It was really early maybe 4-5 days. My original partner I last has sex with him on September 23rd. I started my new relationship after my period and had sex with my new partner on October 10th. Heres where im confused. When the doctor told me I as pregnant on November 1st, they said I was 7 weeks pregnant. I knew it was was first partner because it was only 3 weeks since I had sex with my second partner.
I recently had 2 scans done 2 days ago (1 at hospital Thursday and a 3D scan at a different clinic Friday). Now they tell me I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant? I should be 12 weeks pregnant by now maybe a little further. I do not know if they scans are based on the gestation dates or fetal dates. I do not understand how my doctor mis-calculated me by 2 1/2 weeks. When 2 other doctors both have me exactly at 9 weeks 5-6 days. Now I think my new partner might be the father which I want.
If my first partner was the father based on when I last had sex with him and when my lmp was, wouldnt that put the gestation date at 12-13 weeks and fetal size 10-11 weeks? I dont understand how Im just now starting my 10th week. PLEASE HELP!!
Also, I forgot to mention this is my first time being pregnant. My first partner is 12 years older than me (40s). Theres been so many times I should have gottem pregnant but never have. He has a daughter thats 16 but I figured maybe he cant get conceive anymore since I never gotten pregnant all the years I was with him never wanted kid with him. He also smokes alot I dont know if that has something to do with it. I do not smoke. My new partner is the same age as me (no kids) but hes really healthy and works out every day. Im really hoping my new partner is the father.
I recently had 2 scans done 2 days ago (1 at hospital Thursday and a 3D scan at a different clinic Friday). Now they tell me I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant? I should be 12 weeks pregnant by now maybe a little further. I do not know if they scans are based on the gestation dates or fetal dates. I do not understand how my doctor mis-calculated me by 2 1/2 weeks. When 2 other doctors both have me exactly at 9 weeks 5-6 days. Now I think my new partner might be the father which I want.
If my first partner was the father based on when I last had sex with him and when my lmp was, wouldnt that put the gestation date at 12-13 weeks and fetal size 10-11 weeks? I dont understand how Im just now starting my 10th week. PLEASE HELP!!
Also, I forgot to mention this is my first time being pregnant. My first partner is 12 years older than me (40s). Theres been so many times I should have gottem pregnant but never have. He has a daughter thats 16 but I figured maybe he cant get conceive anymore since I never gotten pregnant all the years I was with him never wanted kid with him. He also smokes alot I dont know if that has something to do with it. I do not smoke. My new partner is the same age as me (no kids) but hes really healthy and works out every day. Im really hoping my new partner is the father.
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