Callum had severe reflux and was put on a medicine called cisapride at a few days old. We just added a few ml to each bottle with a syringe. Once his sucking reflex improved, he also had a milk thickener which made his milk the consistancy of school custard - no way could he sick that back up
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Alex also has reflux, but nowhere near as bad as Callums was (Callums muscle didn't close at all, Alex's does close but not as it should. He's having his weight closely monitered to make sure he's keeping enough down. He's dropped from 50th - 25th centile in first two weeks, so we're keeping fingers crossed he'll start going back up. Daniel had pyloric stenosis (the opposite of reflux where the muscle doesn't open properly)
All three boys also have varying degrees of milk intolerence - Daniel had 24 hr colic on regular formula and ended up on Soy formula, Callum lost 2 lbs in SCBU before his milk was changed to a pre-digested formula, Alex is on Soy formula but if his weight doesn't start going back up to 50th centile, he's going on to the the pre-digested gunk.
They do grow out of it / learn to cope with it themselves - Daniel improved at about 6 months, Callum still has reflux but takes gaviscon when it hurts or gets too much for him. Callum and Alex are both preemies so I guess the reflux may be linked in some way - my brother was also a preemie and had the same reflux as Callum
There's a few things we learnt while Callum was in SCBU that we've done with Alex, so hope you'll find them helpful
- we use doubled over towels in the moses basket / pram rather than sheets. We'd be changing sheets 6 times a day as the sick spreads out a lot more, we can get away with changing the towels less, and the mattress doesn't get icky. Still haven't found any towels big enough for the cot.
- the nurses looking after callum tried all sorts of ways of winding, some would wind him every half ounce, others would just do him once at the end. Eventually, we settled on once at the end - he'd bring up milk with each winding, but still the same amount if we left it till the end. Alex doesn't like being left until the end, he's sick over and over if we do it that way so we've settled on every ounce for him.
- raise the head end of the cot / pram / moses basket.
- bibs, bibs, bibs - Alex has major paddies if his clothes get wet so we're going through loooooads of bibs - we've just bought some really thick ones with a soft plastic backing which he seems to prefer.
We've had loads of help with Callum and Alex, Callum because he was in SCBU when he was diagnosed, Alex because of the family history, but it took us 3 months to get any response from doctor / health visitor with Daniel.
You're definately not alone - we visited loads of parents in similar situations when Daniel and Callum were small to offer help and advice because the health visitor didn't have a clue. I'm sure there are loads of parents out there going through the same, but are being told it's normal for babies to be sick - it's not until the HV sees baby bring up half a feed in one go that they'll do anything
Charlotte is absolutely fine - no reflux, no stenosis, no intolerences
How's Damiens weight gain?
Tracy xx