Really piss** of =/

[Slinky Sarah]

Its good you have support from your mum hun in that way.

You never no, once baby is here and hes seen him/her he may change his mind about everything. especially when they see how your turning your life around too.

Dont panic yourself yet hun and get stressed out. It will work out

 

[Serendipity_]

Can't you get a caravan and put it in their garden??

I'm outta ideas

 

[Jade&Evie]

where are you living now? it cant be that bad if you can sit on the net all afternoon

and more importantly- why aren't you at school?

 

[jazzmum2be]

does ur mum not work then if she can help u durin the week and stay over?

What do you mean?

Can't you get a caravan and put it in their garden??

I'm outta ideas

where are you living now? it cant be that bad if you can sit on the net all afternoon

and more importantly- why aren't you at school?

Im staying at my nans untill january untill I get somewhere to live.
Im not at school because when i got raped I went through really bad depression and thesocial people have given me a year off.

 

[Jade&Evie]

As for the maintenance part. GOOD FOR YOU FIGHTING!!! i would have fought tooth and nail against David for maintenance of Angel and i would have been with Lee and with him not wanting nothing to do with baby. He helped make the baby he can help bloody pay. There is nothing wrong with getting help and its not discpicable and using, he should have thought about that too when he had sex. Men have just as much responsibility as us, they can walk away (to some extent so can women) but why should they get away with it. Some people arent in the situation to be able to not ask for help.

Fair enough, if he going to be a part of the babies life but why should he be made to pay for child who he doesn't see?!

Too many men are shafted by women trying to get maintanance out them and it's wrong. Jon pays towards Evie and for that reason, if he wanted to, he could see her. If I didn't want him a part of her life at all I would be brave enough to say that I don't need his money and he can bugger off.

 

[Serendipity_]

[quote="Slinky Sarah":31myoife]

As for the maintenance part. GOOD FOR YOU FIGHTING!!! i would have fought tooth and nail against David for maintenance of Angel and i would have been with Lee and with him not wanting nothing to do with baby. He helped make the baby he can help bloody pay. There is nothing wrong with getting help and its not discpicable and using, he should have thought about that too when he had sex. Men have just as much responsibility as us, they can walk away (to some extent so can women) but why should they get away with it. Some people arent in the situation to be able to not ask for help.

Fair enough, if he going to be a part of the babies life but why should he be made to pay for child who he doesn't see?!

Too many men are shafted by women trying to get maintanance out them and it's wrong. Jon pays towards Evie and for that reason, if he wanted to, he could see her. If I didn't want him a part of her life at all I would be brave enough to say that I don't need his money and he can bugger off.[/quote:31myoife]

Isn't he choosing to not see the baby though? Jazz's babas dad

 

[mummykay]

does ur mum not work then if she can help u durin the week and stay over?

What do you mean?

s'ok iv reread about ur mum not workin but puttin stuff on ebay.

 

[Jade&Evie]

Im staying at my nans untill january untill I get somewhere to live.

you've got somewhere to live. and i can bet you that when they move you into the hostel or a damp bedsit you will want to be back there.

im pretty sure they dont give you a year off school for depression....

 

[Slinky Sarah]

[quote="Slinky Sarah":2sl58txi]

As for the maintenance part. GOOD FOR YOU FIGHTING!!! i would have fought tooth and nail against David for maintenance of Angel and i would have been with Lee and with him not wanting nothing to do with baby. He helped make the baby he can help bloody pay. There is nothing wrong with getting help and its not discpicable and using, he should have thought about that too when he had sex. Men have just as much responsibility as us, they can walk away (to some extent so can women) but why should they get away with it. Some people arent in the situation to be able to not ask for help.

Fair enough, if he going to be a part of the babies life but why should he be made to pay for child who he doesn't see?!

Too many men are shafted by women trying to get maintanance out them and it's wrong. Jon pays towards Evie and for that reason, if he wanted to, he could see her. If I didn't want him a part of her life at all I would be brave enough to say that I don't need his money and he can bugger off.[/quote:2sl58txi]


SO the women out there who cant afford to do that for whatever reason are spineless are they?

Too many women are shaffted by spineless twats for men who fuck off at the first sign of things getting too hard. thought you would be open to that fact anyway.

If you see it as brave not asking for help if you need it then thats your opinion, in mine its stupid. If you need the help why not get it from the coward who leaves you in the shit in the first place?

 

[jazzmum2be]

[/quote]
Fair enough, if he going to be a part of the babies life but why should he be made to pay for child who he doesn't see?!
[/quote]

I disagree, but I cant be bothered to go into why. lol


im pretty sure they dont give you a year off school for depression....[/quote]

Im pretty sure they do seen as theve given me a year of.
Its not just depression but Im not going to tell people everything thast happened since, when I hardly no you guys.

 

[fran_23]

Sorry i disagree that the babies dad shouldnt pay maintenence, hes decided not to have anything to do with the baby but he created it why shouldnt he pay for his responsibilities? for as many women that are out there "shafting" men for money towards kids theres men running away from what they have helped create and paying nothing..they can just swan off and leave the women holding and paying for the baby and thats just as unfair.

 

[Serendipity_]

I think if the girls been through depression, other issues and rape, then I think they wouldn't just force her to go back. Why can't you do your GCSEs at home, you know, revise at home, then sit them at school in isolation or something?

 

[jazzmum2be]

Sorry i disagree that the babies dad shouldnt pay maintenence, hes decided not to have anything to do with the baby but he created it why shouldnt he pay for his responsibilities? for as many women that are out there "shafting" men for money towards kids theres men running away from what they have helped create and paying nothing..they can just swan off and leave the women holding and paying for the baby and thats just as unfair.

Exactly what I think.

 

[Serendipity_]

Sorry i disagree that the babies dad shouldnt pay maintenence, hes decided not to have anything to do with the baby but he created it why shouldnt he pay for his responsibilities? for as many women that are out there "shafting" men for money towards kids theres men running away from what they have helped create and paying nothing..they can just swan off and leave the women holding and paying for the baby and thats just as unfair.

I agree on this one.

IF the girl has trapped the man, then its different really.... But if the bloke decides 'fuck this, I don't want it' and expects not to see the kid and not pay anything, he deserves everything he gets.

 

[jazzmum2be]

I think if the girls been through depression, other issues and rape, then I think they wouldn't just force her to go back. Why can't you do your GCSEs at home, you know, revise at home, then sit them at school in isolation or something?

Because I now only have 4 months to revise for my gcse's and then take the exam.
I havent been at school since may time. And Iv forgetten half the stuff.
id ratehr wait and go back to colleeg and egt the grades id like, rather than crappy grades because I didnt revise enough.

 

[Sammystar]

Im staying at my nans untill january untill I get somewhere to live.

you've got somewhere to live. and i can bet you that when they move you into the hostel or a damp bedsit you will want to be back there.

im pretty sure they dont give you a year off school for depression....

Seem to recall you saying a few pages back you were going to step out of this?

Why don't you, if you can't think of anything positive to say?

People come on here for help and support. You're all for accepting it for yourself. If you can't offer any to Jazzmum2be, stay out of the thread.

Jazz, hope things work out for you hun

 

[Slinky Sarah]

Im staying at my nans untill january untill I get somewhere to live.

you've got somewhere to live. and i can bet you that when they move you into the hostel or a damp bedsit you will want to be back there.

im pretty sure they dont give you a year off school for depression....

Seem to recall you saying a few pages back you were going to step out of this?

Why don't you, if you can't think of anything positive to say?

People come on here for help and support. You're all for accepting it for yourself. If you can't offer any to Jazzmum2be, stay out of the thread.

Jazz, hope things work out for you hun

well said Sue

 

[mummykay]

well first off u need a bank account for any money to be paid into and for a bank account u need an address - thats what u need above all else - somewhere to live.

sort the maintenance later, theres no point tryin to argue about why the dad should pay maintenace etc - he might not even b workin when babys born so DONT depend on that money for now.

 

[Serendipity_]

I think if the girls been through depression, other issues and rape, then I think they wouldn't just force her to go back. Why can't you do your GCSEs at home, you know, revise at home, then sit them at school in isolation or something?

Because I now only have 4 months to revise for my gcse's and then take the exam.
I havent been at school since may time. And Iv forgetten half the stuff.
id ratehr wait and go back to colleeg and egt the grades id like, rather than crappy grades because I didnt revise enough.

I meant like, in May when it happened. I didn't mean now

Fair enough, good luck

 

[Laur_250]

I think you need to accept you are going to be waiting a long time for this flat. There are gonna be people on that list who are in much worse positions than you, you are saying you are 'homeless' but im sorry this is not the case, you have a mum and dad , yes you may have disagreements and problems but can you honestly say that if the council turned round and told you they wouldnt help you, they would see you pregnant ohn the streets? And is your nan seriously gonna turn round in january and say 'ok now get out' regardless of whether you have somewhere to go?

I think in reality the answers to your problems dont lie in the council giving you a home, they are by you first of all comunicating better with your family and asking for more help, apologising for the past and agreeing to help out more in the future.

If you have grown up and changed as you say im sure your family would rather you live with them and help out more than be alone in a hostel.xx