Please dont hate me...... I just dont feel anything?

[kaz1983]

I felt similar to you Lynds77 it wasnt so much I didnt feel a connection but that I wouldnt be able to cope once minion is here and how rubbish a mum I was gonna be - these feelings only appear when I feel really exhausted and have since passed. Hubby is waaaaaay more excited than I am and I am pretty excited so you can imagine what he is like lol - He rubs my belly every night and we talk away to the minion and just really cant wait till our 12 week scan to see minion for real

P.S I notice we have the same due dates

 

[ams25]

I think it is a self-preservation thing this early on hun! I know what you mean, I almost can't believe its real yet and I know that we still have another 4 weeks to go before we are considered 'safe' so therefore its really hard to get excited! It will come hun xxx

 

[leesey]

I understand the kind of disconnected feeling, as much as I love my baby (after finally letting my fears go enough to do so), I still sometimes think, there's a little creature inside me!!

When I'm not feeling pregnant, sometimes I sit down and think, oh my god there's something inside me!! It's a weird feeling, but I'm definitely happy about it.

It's just taken a while for me to let go enough to connect, after all my worry xx