Hi, I am sure you all know that i am 11weeks 2 days PG (ticker wrong and i cant change it) and although i have had all the sysmptoms in the book at text book times too. ie sleeping trouble , tired, cravings, sickness, headaches i still dont actually feel pregnant. I was reading a book today that said the babys ears are fully developed by now and talking to your baby will help them recognise your voice after the birth. What i want to ask is does anyone else do this i just feel stupid as nothing in me associates that there really is a little person inside me. I have a tiny little bump but just feel fat. I have had 2 scans which i found amazing and very emotional (for OH and me) but i still cant seem to bond with bump and feel pregnant. I this a strange thing to say, when did you all feel connected i think i may feel better when i can feel kicks and movements at the mo i feel like it hasnt yet sunk in. I dont want to feel like a bad mum before ive even started but just dont feel pregnant?! Is that really odd or should i go baby shopping to get excited. I am so happy and am over the moon, but i think as we were trying for such a long time (17 months) the reality that i am gonna be a mum hasnt sunk in yet. How can i make the reality kick in and me feel like a mummy to be? Perhaps the growing bump will help later on. At the moment i feel like it is happening to someone else? Sorry if i sound like a nutter i just wondered if you all feel pregnant, i know i am but just cant get onto the frame of mind.