well we failed...again.
we have now being TTC for 15months, which if you consider that we are a generally healthy couple in our early twenties, this is not a good thing. so the time has come for us to do something about it.
Here's a little view of recent events:
November 2008- we do things by the book, this meant BDing every other day around ovulation. i've now been tracking my cycle for over a year and have been pretty regular for around 7 month (a new expereince for me)...this method didnt work.
December 2008- we give it everything we've got, which meant BDing just about everyday all month through, it was rather knackering but we tried as much as we could. that didnt work either.
AF arrived on the 08/01/09 and we decided enough was enough. we sat down and had a lengthy talk about what we were going to do, what we want from life, if we're too young, where this journey would leave it and importantly if our love for each other has whats it takes to survive this journey...we decided it has!
ultimately this conversation led us to conclude that medical help needs to be sought. once my AF finishes (which looks like it could be the next few days) i will make an appointment to see my GP and express my concerns. he knew from day one that we were trying to concieve so this should help.
i hope this will help others in our situation, it is certainly helping us to write it down- so we will be selfish and keep this up to date, like a diary if you will.
so heres to the start of a painful, testing but ultimataly incredible journey.
we have now being TTC for 15months, which if you consider that we are a generally healthy couple in our early twenties, this is not a good thing. so the time has come for us to do something about it.
Here's a little view of recent events:
November 2008- we do things by the book, this meant BDing every other day around ovulation. i've now been tracking my cycle for over a year and have been pretty regular for around 7 month (a new expereince for me)...this method didnt work.
December 2008- we give it everything we've got, which meant BDing just about everyday all month through, it was rather knackering but we tried as much as we could. that didnt work either.
AF arrived on the 08/01/09 and we decided enough was enough. we sat down and had a lengthy talk about what we were going to do, what we want from life, if we're too young, where this journey would leave it and importantly if our love for each other has whats it takes to survive this journey...we decided it has!
ultimately this conversation led us to conclude that medical help needs to be sought. once my AF finishes (which looks like it could be the next few days) i will make an appointment to see my GP and express my concerns. he knew from day one that we were trying to concieve so this should help.
i hope this will help others in our situation, it is certainly helping us to write it down- so we will be selfish and keep this up to date, like a diary if you will.
so heres to the start of a painful, testing but ultimataly incredible journey.