Lola goes to bed about 8 every night fine.sleeps in her cot til about twelve or one. Then when im in bed she has to get into my bed! She wont sleep in her cot while im in there and i dont want her in her own room yet. How can i get her to stay in her own cot?i left her to cry one night and she did for over 3hours.then shut up as soon as she got in with me! Any suggestions?was thinkin of me sleepin on sofa for a few night and leaving the baby monitor on and leaving her to cry? Think id cave in though!