teampc
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I have just found out that the inlaws have once again got them into trouble with money, Im sure they do it to try and push me over the edge, I am so pissed of with them its un believable. They stress me out enough as it is without adding this shit to it. Honestly you would never guess they are parents, they act like fricking out of control children
argh, well I spose I need to fill you in on everything really as at the moment I am just ranting for no apparent reason ......so here goes
a few years ago when we were just about ready to buy our first house, oh's mum came to us because the mortgage company were going to take the house from them.....we were instantly confused because oh's dad was in the army and got injured and had a large payout and they had bought their house outright, so it turned out they had taken out some dodgy mortgage/loan type of things for £50k and were paying back INTEREST ONLY of £1100 a month (dont ask, I dont know how they managed that shit of a deal but there we go) anyway they hadnt paid for a few months and were in the shit, so being the idiots we are we helped them by using some of our deposit money. Then I got our mortgage lady to go see them and sort them out, she got them onto a much better mortgage and they were fine. They paid us back all fine and dandy. (we havent had a thankyou for this help as we are apparently rich and lucky.............no I wont go down that road at the moment as I am likely to make myself scream)
Anyway we have never found out what the 50k was for or what they spent it on (there house is a shit hole, they have lived there 10 years and never done a thing to it, everything needs replacing etc, so I cant see why if they took out 50k on it they couldnt have got a few things fixed)
Then we move on a few years (they are always whinging about money) and oh's brother, mrs and 2 kids give up their council house and move in with the parents, this is apparenlty cus they are all struggling with money so this way they will split the bills of one house etc. Every time I speak to sil ot seems odd as she says no one has any money for anything, things get paid late etc etc (it doesnt help that she is the only one that actually goes out to work...again lets not go there as I will get angry)
In amongst all of this they get a new mortgage deal, down to a nice and friendly £240 a month (god Id love a mortgage like that lol) so they have seriously reduced bills etc, and it seemed things were looking up.........................until today!!!!!!!!
I have just got off the phone being told all about the latest lot of troubles which have resulted in them not paying the mortgage again. Apparently before christmas mil got a loan of 1.5k (again for nothing) but its one of those ridiculous interest ones and now she owes 3k on it. Then in Jan she took out a credit card, and maxed it in 3 weeks!!!!3 WEEKS!! Then she got bil to put money in her current account for the mortgage, but as soon as she knew it was in there she went out and spent it....who the fuck does that?????
I have no idea how much she has on the credit card, I dont even want to think about it right now. Just seems like despite us helping them getting them sorted and having a nie life they have just thrown it all away and have fuck all to show for it!
I know whats coming...they will turn up on our doorstep asking for help as we are lucky and have money (just to make this clear, we have average jobs me in an office oh is a posty, we have our own house, 2 cars....and we have these things by working fricking hard and saving for them, our mortgage is our only 'debt' so we arent lucky we are just sensible and save for things instead of taking loans etc)
well they arent getting a penny this time, we have a baby on the way and thats my prority, im not helping ungrateful people liek that again when I have my own to think about
god i am really really really pissed off, I need a big glass of baileys - which i obviously cant have lol will have to consoul myself with a bar of galaxy instead
and hubby is going to be out of his mind about it argh
ok and breath.......sorry for the rant ladies, but I really do feel like im going to burst
argh, well I spose I need to fill you in on everything really as at the moment I am just ranting for no apparent reason ......so here goes
a few years ago when we were just about ready to buy our first house, oh's mum came to us because the mortgage company were going to take the house from them.....we were instantly confused because oh's dad was in the army and got injured and had a large payout and they had bought their house outright, so it turned out they had taken out some dodgy mortgage/loan type of things for £50k and were paying back INTEREST ONLY of £1100 a month (dont ask, I dont know how they managed that shit of a deal but there we go) anyway they hadnt paid for a few months and were in the shit, so being the idiots we are we helped them by using some of our deposit money. Then I got our mortgage lady to go see them and sort them out, she got them onto a much better mortgage and they were fine. They paid us back all fine and dandy. (we havent had a thankyou for this help as we are apparently rich and lucky.............no I wont go down that road at the moment as I am likely to make myself scream)
Anyway we have never found out what the 50k was for or what they spent it on (there house is a shit hole, they have lived there 10 years and never done a thing to it, everything needs replacing etc, so I cant see why if they took out 50k on it they couldnt have got a few things fixed)
Then we move on a few years (they are always whinging about money) and oh's brother, mrs and 2 kids give up their council house and move in with the parents, this is apparenlty cus they are all struggling with money so this way they will split the bills of one house etc. Every time I speak to sil ot seems odd as she says no one has any money for anything, things get paid late etc etc (it doesnt help that she is the only one that actually goes out to work...again lets not go there as I will get angry)
In amongst all of this they get a new mortgage deal, down to a nice and friendly £240 a month (god Id love a mortgage like that lol) so they have seriously reduced bills etc, and it seemed things were looking up.........................until today!!!!!!!!
I have just got off the phone being told all about the latest lot of troubles which have resulted in them not paying the mortgage again. Apparently before christmas mil got a loan of 1.5k (again for nothing) but its one of those ridiculous interest ones and now she owes 3k on it. Then in Jan she took out a credit card, and maxed it in 3 weeks!!!!3 WEEKS!! Then she got bil to put money in her current account for the mortgage, but as soon as she knew it was in there she went out and spent it....who the fuck does that?????
I have no idea how much she has on the credit card, I dont even want to think about it right now. Just seems like despite us helping them getting them sorted and having a nie life they have just thrown it all away and have fuck all to show for it!
I know whats coming...they will turn up on our doorstep asking for help as we are lucky and have money (just to make this clear, we have average jobs me in an office oh is a posty, we have our own house, 2 cars....and we have these things by working fricking hard and saving for them, our mortgage is our only 'debt' so we arent lucky we are just sensible and save for things instead of taking loans etc)
well they arent getting a penny this time, we have a baby on the way and thats my prority, im not helping ungrateful people liek that again when I have my own to think about
god i am really really really pissed off, I need a big glass of baileys - which i obviously cant have lol will have to consoul myself with a bar of galaxy instead
and hubby is going to be out of his mind about it argh
ok and breath.......sorry for the rant ladies, but I really do feel like im going to burst