OH is a complete idiot. he demand that we move before baby comes (he only told me 3 days ago) from my flat. We where ment to move after Noa is born, in november.
He expect me to find a 2 bedroom house. Today i walked around asking in letting agencys and to my suprise.. there was no 2 bedroom houses. Only flats. So i found 1 flat with a garden. I called OH up and told him the situation, and he started to have a go at me!!
And said if i dont find a house he wont live with me and Noa.
There is no way i can do this on my own without him, having him come and go as he please. Plus that me and Noa wont have anywhere to live (cant stay in this flat).
I CANT BELIVE he is putting this stress on me. im due in 8 weeks!! I been crying so much.
i txt him and said that for me Noa must come first and eitherway OH is with us, or not.
He is really stressed out at the moment but to be honest, DONT TAKE IT OUT ON ME!! i deserve better, and so does his son.
I know he want to be with us and he loves us so much but sometimes hes SUCH a knob and dont think atall. selfish fuckin idiot.
I will give my notice on this flat 1 sep. and if hes not here with us then i just go home to sweden where I will have support and Noa will be safe.
If OH cant live in a flat with us cuz its not "good enough for him" then he dont deserve noa anyway.
He expect me to find a 2 bedroom house. Today i walked around asking in letting agencys and to my suprise.. there was no 2 bedroom houses. Only flats. So i found 1 flat with a garden. I called OH up and told him the situation, and he started to have a go at me!!
And said if i dont find a house he wont live with me and Noa.
There is no way i can do this on my own without him, having him come and go as he please. Plus that me and Noa wont have anywhere to live (cant stay in this flat).
I CANT BELIVE he is putting this stress on me. im due in 8 weeks!! I been crying so much.
i txt him and said that for me Noa must come first and eitherway OH is with us, or not.
He is really stressed out at the moment but to be honest, DONT TAKE IT OUT ON ME!! i deserve better, and so does his son.
I know he want to be with us and he loves us so much but sometimes hes SUCH a knob and dont think atall. selfish fuckin idiot.
I will give my notice on this flat 1 sep. and if hes not here with us then i just go home to sweden where I will have support and Noa will be safe.
If OH cant live in a flat with us cuz its not "good enough for him" then he dont deserve noa anyway.