Not sure if I am having a miscarriage...

[Summergurl]

Awe ladies I'm so sorry to hear this sending you both lots of hugs xx

 

[Kholl]

Oh no ladies I’m so sorry. Unfortunately I know how it feels, it’s just awful. Take care ladies.

 

[Niknaknoo]

Oh I’m so sorry ladies. Just devastating. X

 

[Sjf0709]

Thank you everyone. Yes I am here for you too Baby3 if you need a chat. At the moment I am upset and angry but also in a weird way I just want it over so we can start trying again. Don’t get me wrong, we are grieving this loss but at the same time I just can’t wait to get pregnant again. I know when I (hopefully) do then I’ll worry like mad but all of this has made me realise how much I want to become a Mummy... xx

 

[baby.3]

Sjf, how are you today?

Xx

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[Sjf0709]

Sjf, how are you today?

Xx

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Thanks for asking Baby3. I was quite emotional again yesterday and but physically I feel confused. Sorry if this is too much info but I don’t know where else to turn for advice. I only bled quite moderately on Sunday and since I’ve just had a bit of brown discharge. No fresh red blood. I’m not in any pain, no cramps and no back ache etc. I just don’t feel like I’m having a miscarriage because I’ve only bled one day. I know I was only 5 weeks and 1 day pregnant but surely I should bleed more than 1 day? I usually bleed for up to 4 days when on a normal period. Has anyone else experienced this? I know I shouldn’t ‘want’ to have a bad miscarriage but I’ve read so many stories about sepsis and getting ill from not bleeding enough etc.

How are you holding up Baby3?

I’ve returned to work today which had been hard with people asking questions. Also had my 2nd lot of bloods done and just waiting the results of my HCG levels.

 

[Niknaknoo]

Hey sjf, it’s confusing isn’t it. When did they say you would get blood results? X

 

[Sjf0709]

Hey sjf, it’s confusing isn’t it. When did they say you would get blood results? X

I got my blood results this afternoon and it was 4.3. The nurse said everyone is different and everyone’s body deals with miscarriage differently. I’m now focusing on the future to help me grieve and hoping I’ll ovulate again soon so we can start trying again, although the thought of that also terrifies me. X

 

[Niknaknoo]

Oh I’m so sorry lovely. At least there is no doubt now and as you say you can get to work again soon.
It will always be a worry for you now but hopefully you’ll get a sticky bean next time. X

 

[baby.3]

I'm doing OK sjf, emotionally I've been through upset and anger but it's been short lived. I think because of my previous mmc I hadn't allowed myself to think too much about this pregnancy, so I'd had gotten as big of attachment to it. That sounds awful, I just mean to say I had tried not to think about the pregnancy as it was so early and my mmc was at 10 wks, so in my head nothing was certain until I hit 2nd trimester. I think the distance has allowed me to accept this mc quicker. If that makes sense? I hope that doesn't come across as heartless, believe me it would have been a very much wanted pregnancy/baby.

I got my last lot of bloods through today, which was at 2. Physically, its not painful, just mild dull aching and bleeding probably slightly more heavier than a regular period.

Sjf, it could be that your hormones haven't dropped enough to release the pregnancy yet? Maybe you'll start in the next day or 2?if not I would definitely go back to your doctors and ask about maybe scanning to see if your retaining products of conception.

I've order some opks and a basal thermometer, so once the bleeding has stopped I'll be ttc again. Although as this is my second mc I'm going to ask the doctors to run some bloods tests to check my egg quantity/quality.

Hope your not left in limbo much longer sjf. I don't wish this on you, but the quicker it happens the quicker you can try again. Fx for your rainbow baby xxx

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[alwayscoffee]

I'm so sad for you guys. Sending you lots of love and hugs!!

 

[Sjf0709]

I'm doing OK sjf, emotionally I've been through upset and anger but it's been short lived. I think because of my previous mmc I hadn't allowed myself to think too much about this pregnancy, so I'd had gotten as big of attachment to it. That sounds awful, I just mean to say I had tried not to think about the pregnancy as it was so early and my mmc was at 10 wks, so in my head nothing was certain until I hit 2nd trimester. I think the distance has allowed me to accept this mc quicker. If that makes sense? I hope that doesn't come across as heartless, believe me it would have been a very much wanted pregnancy/baby.

I got my last lot of bloods through today, which was at 2. Physically, its not painful, just mild dull aching and bleeding probably slightly more heavier than a regular period.

Sjf, it could be that your hormones haven't dropped enough to release the pregnancy yet? Maybe you'll start in the next day or 2?if not I would definitely go back to your doctors and ask about maybe scanning to see if your retaining products of conception.

I've order some opks and a basal thermometer, so once the bleeding has stopped I'll be ttc again. Although as this is my second mc I'm going to ask the doctors to run some bloods tests to check my egg quantity/quality.

Hope your not left in limbo much longer sjf. I don't wish this on you, but the quicker it happens the quicker you can try again. Fx for your rainbow baby xxx

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I completely understand Baby3 and I’m here if you ever want to talk. My bleeding stopped today and we will be ttc again too. Before our mc we were very much just a ‘let’s wait and see what happens’ with the ttc. I was tracking my ovulation etc but not telling DH. Since our mc he has read so much about it and is very keen to get started again and now understands more about the ovulation window, which he didn’t know before. There’s also stats that say you’re more likely to get pregnant in the first 3 months after a mc and even more so in the next 6 months so he’s keen to get started. So a positive has come out of a bad situation in the sense we are closer but also, we both know how much we want this now.

I’ve also bought a basal thermometer as well as ovulation tests. Like you said fx for a happy and healthy rainbow baby for us both. Xx

 

[Sparky Mum]

Very sorry for your loss x