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Not sure if I am having a miscarriage...

How are you doing sjf? Xx

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Thanks for checking up on me. I’m very emotional at the moment and feel like I’m living in limbo. I went to my niece’s birthday party today which helped go take my mind off it but my sister and step mum could sense something was wrong and I just broke down... still losing blood but not in any pain and no nausea. I’ll just have to wait for a scan tomorrow x
 
Sjf by any chance did you have sex before the bleeding?

Sometimes that can cause a bit of a blood to appear. I had it the next morning after DTD but it was pinky and stretchy.


No unfortunately not :-(
 
sjf, looks like we're in the same boat. I've just been to the toilet and I've started spotting. Pinkish/red/brown blood

I'm due a phone call from the doctors tomorrow to give me my results from the last blood test. I'll ask them to run another lot, but I suspect this is the end of the road for me. I'm heartbroken :'(

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sjf, looks like we're in the same boat. I've just been to the toilet and I've started spotting. Pinkish/red/brown blood

I'm due a phone call from the doctors tomorrow to give me my results from the last blood test. I'll ask them to run another lot, but I suspect this is the end of the road for me. I'm heartbroken :'(

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Aw I am so sorry :-( like you said we are in the same boat. There’s so many emotions and mixed feelings going around in my mind right now it’s unreal. There’s so many possibilities of what it could be and I’ve read so many stories of people continuing with their pregnancies, going full term and having a healthy baby. My hubby is more hopeful than I am at the moment. He’s been my rock. I hope you have someone you can talk to and be there for you. Let me know how you get on tomorrow. Keeping everything crossed for us and our little beans xx
 
Oh no baby 3, fingers crossed for you both.
Sending sticky vibes your way x
 
Sjf, I've read the same. That there are so many that experience bleeding and it ends up being fine for them.

I hope the same can be said for you, i have everything crossed that your little bean hangs on in there.

Unfortunately I don't think that is likely going to happen for me. Wiped earlier and there was a tiny tiny clot. I suspect over night/tomorrow things will in case for me. I've not period pains yet, and the bleeding isn't touching the pad - its only viable when wiping. But the beginning of clots doesn't fill me with hope or confidence.

Xxx

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You poor thing, I really hope its just a hematoma (not that uncommon). Until you have an answer you could always take a HPT. If the line is super light or BFN then you can pretty confidently say you're miscarrying. Obviously the line can be dark even if you are losing it, but the lines will gradually get lighter with a MC. Not the most accurate thing, but maybe better than nothing? Good luck. If you're still not in pain or passing clots, there is hope x
 
Sorry to hear this sjf and baby3. I really hope things are ok for you both x
 
Thank you everyone for your support. I’ve woken up this morning feeling slightly more positive as the bleeding has subsided and it appears to just be old blood. That might be because I’ve been lied down all night though and gravity hasn’t been the same. Phoning EPU shortly and I’ll let you know how I get on... I’ve got everything crossed for us both
 
I'm glad your bleeding is subsiding sjf, hopefully the epu can help to reassure you.

Unfortunately, i'm not going to be so lucky i don't think. Started losing tiny tiny blood clots last night and woke to light period type pains this morning :(
 
Ladies i wish there was something i could say to you. But no words will ever make anything better. But im thinking of you and have everything crossed for you xx
 
I'm glad your bleeding is subsiding sjf, hopefully the epu can help to reassure you.

Unfortunately, i'm not going to be so lucky i don't think. Started losing tiny tiny blood clots last night and woke to light period type pains this morning :(

So sorry Baby3... I’ve not had any period like pains so that is what is keeping me hopeful. Try to stay positive. I know how hard it is to do and it’s easier said than done. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Please let me know if you get any results
 
Update - EPU won’t scan me because it’s earlier than 6 weeks and they don’t scan before then. Instead, they’ve taken my bloods for my baseline HCG. They’re going to phone later on today with the results. I’ve then got to go back on Wednesday and have further bloods taken. They’ve said it should be increasing by 60% between my two tests if my pregnancy is progressing. They’ve also said that I could bleed throughout my pregnancy and it could just be normal for me.

Positivity - today I’m feeling a lot more positive as the bleeding has subsided so I’m keeping everything crossed for my blood results. I am however scared that today they might come back and say I was never pregnant at all. I don’t know how they could say that after I took 3 tests which came back positive, including a clear blue test which said 1-2 weeks... anxiously awaiting that call now...
 
Update - EPU won’t scan me because it’s earlier than 6 weeks and they don’t scan before then. Instead, they’ve taken my bloods for my baseline HCG. They’re going to phone later on today with the results. I’ve then got to go back on Wednesday and have further bloods taken. They’ve said it should be increasing by 60% between my two tests if my pregnancy is progressing. They’ve also said that I could bleed throughout my pregnancy and it could just be normal for me.

Positivity - today I’m feeling a lot more positive as the bleeding has subsided so I’m keeping everything crossed for my blood results. I am however scared that today they might come back and say I was never pregnant at all. I don’t know how they could say that after I took 3 tests which came back positive, including a clear blue test which said 1-2 weeks... anxiously awaiting that call now...

Glad to hear you are feeling more positive sjf and fingers crossed for good news.

Baby 3 how are you doing? X
 
I'm ok, still bleeding although there's nothing on the pad it's when I wipe. But then I've been up and down to the toilet like a yoyo so probably hasn't had time to hit the pad.

I keep expecting to be hit with waves of intense period cramps but I've got nothing like that. However, I have still passed clots no bigger then 5p but it's still not good.

Still waiting to hear back from the GP with last weeks bloods. Once they ring I'll ask them to take a second lot. It's just an horrific waiting game now.

Sjf, I'm glad your bleeding has subsided. Shame they can't scan early, but I suppose there's nothing really to see at such an early stage. Hopefully the bloods will confirm that it's all progressing though. Got everything crossed for you

Xxx

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So had a call back regarding last week's bloods. I would have been 4wks 4days when I had the bloods done but the hcg was only 36 :( so looks like it never really began.

Got repeat bloods tomorrow, I'm not hopefully that there will be an improvement.


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So had a call back regarding last week's bloods. I would have been 4wks 4days when I had the bloods done but the hcg was only 36 :( so looks like it never really began.

Got repeat bloods tomorrow, I'm not hopefully that there will be an improvement.


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So sorry to hear that. I hope your results after tomorrow’s test are more promising *keeing everything crossed*
 
So I have just had a call back from the EPU and it appears my HCG levels are only 10 :-( I have been advised that it is therefore it is unlikely to be a continuing pregnancy :cry: they’re going to re-test on Wednesday but only because I requested it...
 
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So sorry to hear that sjf :( I really had hoped you would get the results we both wanted to hear.

I'm here if you need to talk/vent?

I'm flitting between anger and sadness at the moment, as I'm sure you are :(

Big hugs for you xxx

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