my world has fallen appart....

[kayuki123]

my husband has left me and my 4month little girl. he says he doenst love me any more but still loves my lo theres no chance of us getting back together. and im finding it hard to see him. he still wants to see my lo but after tonight he came round to see her we ended up arguing. i dont want him any where near me her atm. eventually i will but it hurts way to much...im sorting out all the things im entitled too but im feeling numb. like im in a dream. im confused and the only thing that is getting me through is my lo. im sorry if this doesnt make sence i just need to vent some where. and ppl that im friends on fb with please dont say anything im keeping a low profile on there atm. thankyou for listening to my rambles.

 

[SpinSugar]

Oh hun I don't know what to say didn't want to read & run but huge hugs I couldn't even begin to imagine what u must be going through

Xx

 

[kayuki123]

thanks hun i dont expect any one to say anything just need a annomous place to rant. but thankyou for your reply xxx

 

[SeonaidMac]

Big hugs hun xxx

 

[beckyboo1]

Oh i'm so sorry hun and that's what we're all here for to vent and rant at!

Did you sense any if this coming on or was it out of the blue?

I do hope you've got some family close to help you with it all. I can completely understand how hard it would be having to deal with your husband seeing your LO.

Big hugs my sweet xxxx

 

[kayuki123]

Oh i'm so sorry hun and that's what we're all here for to vent and rant at!

Did you sense any if this coming on or was it out of the blue?

I do hope you've got some family close to help you with it all. I can completely understand how hard it would be having to deal with your husband seeing your LO.

Big hugs my sweet xxxx

i could kind of see it coming tbh but because of my lo i thought it would be ok. or we could work though it like we did in the past. he doenst want too... my friends and family are being amazing. its the night time thats the worst... xx

 

[Simoneh00]

Omg babe I can't believe it! What an arse! I'm here anytime day or night. My phone is never off! (fb comes straight to my phone)
Or his loss. You're a wonderful person with a gorgeous baby and he'll never get anyone half as good as you xxx

 

[kayuki123]

Omg babe I can't believe it! What an arse! I'm here anytime day or night. My phone is never off! (fb comes straight to my phone)
Or his loss. You're a wonderful person with a gorgeous baby and he'll never get anyone half as good as you xxx

thanks hun means alot. ive had one hell of a week. i would of said sooner but i see you have had probems too hope your ok. xxx

 

[Simoneh00]

You can come to me anytime. Doesn't matter what Ive got going on huni. I mean it, anytime.
What a gigantic asshat of a prick he is doing this to you xx

 

[kayuki123]

You can come to me anytime. Doesn't matter what Ive got going on huni. I mean it, anytime.
What a gigantic asshat of a prick he is doing this to you xx

ohh ass hat i like that word. hehe thankyou that means so much too me. we can have a rant and moan at how life is such a asshat xxx

 

[Little_angel]

Oh sweetie, I can't imagine how hard this must be for you

 

[kayuki123]

Oh sweetie, I can't imagine how hard this must be for you

thankyou hun. im plodding through... trying to keep strong for my lo. xxx

 

[mrz85]

so sorry hun,we r here 4 u x

 

[kayuki123]

so sorry hun,we r here 4 u x

thankyou hun. been a bit busy trying get my mind off of every thing it seems too work 50% of the time. xx

 

[Colourmeblue]

How sad, hope you're ok. My ex left me when my lo was 15months - a week after our wedding day to be precise! - so i know the pain you're going through. Just take it one day at a time, concentrate on you lo for now, then eventually start rebuiding your life, your hobbies etc. It gets better i promise you, and seeing him eventually wont bother you either, even though its painful now. big hugs xxx

 

[monzical]

My heart goes out to you hun, its not the easiest thing at all. I went through a roller coaster during my breakup and I learned that the pain and grief comes in stages. I found this website helped me a lot http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/ during those dark times and helped me see that my OH a the time was in fact a tosser who I placed on a pedal stool to my own detriment. There is also some great break up advice on there. Hope it helps a little. xx

 

[kayuki123]

Thankyou hun that helps alot im out the other side of the breakup and now know hes a twat tosser ect! Lol and I can do so much better! I do have days when I think oh we should be doing this or it would of been nice if... but I also think im missing what he used to be not what he is now. :/ xx

 

[luckylucky]

Im so sorry , im sure in time it will get better , sounds like he does not deserve you. His loss x