WishingHoping
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I wanted to post this for myself & for any other women who may ever go through an ectopic in the future & don't know what to expect.
Yes, it is scary & yes it is sad but I promise you will come out the other side wondering how you were ever this strong & you will be okay.
Yes you will cry ALOT you will feel pregnant for a while after & you will also feel suddenly very empty at the same time. You will be okay.
Yes you will laugh again. You may feel like you don't want too or you won't but you will. You will be okay.
Yes it will hurt. You will struggle to walk, to wash, to travel, to sleep, to sneeze, to cough but it will get better. You will be okay.
Yes it will be difficult to want to be intimate again. You will be scared, scared it will hurt; scared it wil happen again & just scared in general. You will be okay.
I had keyhole surgery to remove my ectopic & my left Fallopian tube. I bled 6days later with a miscarriage of the twin.
Signs of ectopic :- lower back ache on one side, cramps on the same side, bleeding. That is about it. Most people don't recognise these signs of ectopic and it may not always be the case the pregnancy is ectopic.
My photos show me in surgery & the ectopic scan. It's not very clear.
If anyone who ever goes through this in the future & ever wants advice please ask; I didn't know anyone who went through this so having someone who has been through it is the best thing to help you heal.
Xx
Yes, it is scary & yes it is sad but I promise you will come out the other side wondering how you were ever this strong & you will be okay.
Yes you will cry ALOT you will feel pregnant for a while after & you will also feel suddenly very empty at the same time. You will be okay.
Yes you will laugh again. You may feel like you don't want too or you won't but you will. You will be okay.
Yes it will hurt. You will struggle to walk, to wash, to travel, to sleep, to sneeze, to cough but it will get better. You will be okay.
Yes it will be difficult to want to be intimate again. You will be scared, scared it will hurt; scared it wil happen again & just scared in general. You will be okay.
I had keyhole surgery to remove my ectopic & my left Fallopian tube. I bled 6days later with a miscarriage of the twin.
Signs of ectopic :- lower back ache on one side, cramps on the same side, bleeding. That is about it. Most people don't recognise these signs of ectopic and it may not always be the case the pregnancy is ectopic.
My photos show me in surgery & the ectopic scan. It's not very clear.
If anyone who ever goes through this in the future & ever wants advice please ask; I didn't know anyone who went through this so having someone who has been through it is the best thing to help you heal.
Xx