More babies

[Yvonne]

Is it just me or does anyone cringe at the thought of having anymore babies?

The thought of even being pregnant sends a shiver down my spine! the big belly, the leaky boobs, the SPD, the NO ALCOHOL rule!! no thankyou

The big boobs after, the super saggy belly, the paranoier of your baby while they sleep.

I can and am not doing it again, i am going to enjoy watching my children grow into the little people they are going to be. and start to relax a bit more.

I feel so bad though saying that, but i look forward to getting my period every month!! is anyone else like me?

Don't let me put any pregnant or TTC ladies off!!

 

[Layla]

I got to admit im dreading this pregnancy and birth after Coby's one and at the same time im so releved(sp?) this is the last time i have to do it lol

this time next year i will be agreeing with your post

xxx

 

[Urchin]

I was gonna make this post today!! with a poll asking people how many kids they want.
I'm very happy with 2 but would have one more if OH lets me but I don't think he will

 

[Rosieroo]

Is it just me or does anyone cringe at the thought of having anymore babies?

Not me! I'm really broody, even more so when I see a woman with a big fat pregnant belly!! Ahhhh now I know what comes out at the end of it (it was all a bit weird the first time round, couldn't quite accept there was a real baby in there ) I can't wait for getting pg with number 2. The thought makes me all excited in my tum

Maybe I'll feel different after no 2?

 

[Hypnorm]

i'd like another possibly two more, and with every one ttc this month it makes you feel even more broody!

 

[Yvonne]

yeah i would love to be TTC with all the regulars, and it would be great to be doing the checkin in thread again but i can't bring myself to even WANT to get pregnant.

I think 2 is definately enough for me, Amy for me to talk to about lady things and Jack for Andy to talk to about well.... man things!! Not sure what that intales but hey at least i escape it!

 

[kellie80]

I'm dreading this pregnancy too! Even though i was a bit broody after Aimee was born the month i found out i was pg i had decided i didn't want another. I'm only 9 weeks and missing the alcohol and fed up of feeling crap already. I just keep myself sane by saying 'this is the last one'.

 

[ToriElla]

(it was all a bit weird the first time round, couldn't quite accept there was a real baby in there ) I can't wait for getting pg with number 2. The thought makes me all excited in my tum

that's how i feel. the thought excites me. I feel a bit nervous about the thought of labour though - I just worry incase something goes wrong. Some days i'm really broody and other days I distract myself and focus on the positives of not being pregnant and that seems to keep it under control.

 

[Dee1985]

toriElla i take it all back on msn about me saying me and kris might start TTC again, yvonne has just reminded me lol

 

[ToriElla]

look what you've gona and done yvonne! she was considering having another on very soon!! i was getting all excited.

(subliminal message - have one have one have one have one have one have one have one have one have one have one have one)

 

[Yvonne]

Sorry, didn't mean to put people off!!

I was sat with my friend tonight talking about the labour etc and i would love to go through that again, the experience was fantastic but i just think that now is the time to enjoy my children.

I have done my bit for population, who knows... maybe a few years!

 

[Yvonne]

if I havent had one by time i'm 30 then i wont be having anymore. although Summer will be 10 then omg 10 xxxx

Don't, its scary how quick they grow!!

 

[Layla]

oooh I thought I wanted another after Summer I was sooo broody and quick to make hasty desicions. But now I look back and think another baby no no no. i do get broody sometimes but I wanna finish uni,job,house, make sure relationship is solid.

if I havent had one by time i'm 30 then i wont be having anymore. although Summer will be 10 then omg 10 xxxx

Charlie will be 10 when im 30, its sooo scarey!!!

Ethan will be 8

where have my babies gone!

xxx

 

[tracyM]

I wanted another 2 when I'm 35 and 39 but it's not to be. I've had an under 5 around the house now for sooooo long, it's hard to imagine what I'll do when Alex starts school maybe I'll have to actually speak to OH We thought about fostering but decided against it, I console myself now knowing it won't be too long before we have grandkids

My next big birthday is 40 - Daniel will be 22 and left home I don't even want to think about it. I've been thinking of ways to keep them tied to my apron forever - we're going to buy them each a house along our road, they've to bring their kids round every weekend to sleep over, I'll do their washing, take tea round every day on a trolley. But at the end of the day, I know they'll have to grow up and make their own way in life, and I'm determined not to be a MIL from hell (well not all the time anyway )

 

[Sarah W Baby Belly]

Definitely don't want to be pregnant again or have any more children.

Haven't felt the slightest bit broody for more children since having samuel.

I love him but don't want to do all the baby stuff again.

I sometimes watch 'mums on strike' in the afternoon and it puts me right off! Talk about slave labour! It puts simon off as well (not that we were ever planning on doing it all over again.)

I only really want to go through one lot of labour, one lot of colic, one lot of sleepless nights, one lot of teething, one lot of weaning, one lot of toddler tantrums etc etc etc etc etc..........

Phewee! I know my limits!

My sister in law is about to have another baby and I always thought that a long gap would be a good thing, but she has struggled being pregnant, even with a four year old. He has been so jealous and throwing tantrums all day long. Also waking up in the night demanding attention. Sod that!

Sorry guys, I know I will hit resistance, but only one child for me.

 

[Rosieroo]

Sorry guys, I know I will hit resistance, but only one child for me.

Nope, it's your choice! I know some women that haven't had 1 child

 

[Sarah W Baby Belly]

Thats true!

I know a lot of people who would give their right arm to be where i am.

I also know people who have 1 child and are desparate for more and can't have them, so i feel so fortunate (most days!)

 

[Rosieroo]

I also know people who have 1 child and are desparate for more and can't have them

Hope that wont be me, I'm desperate for another If that's the case then Ella will be one spoilt little madam. Fingers crossed for my BFP in July

 

[Hillbilly]

After ds1(1988) dd (1991) and ds2 (1993) I swore there would be no more. Ever. No way. No how. Not even if someone pleaded with me and paid me a million pounds. I had my kids and now I wanted to get on with my own life and go back to travellling etc etc.

Then I met DH in 2003 and within 3 weeks we were planning what our baby would be called and DS3 arrived in 2006 - funny how hormones can control you really. Would still like another but I'm 36 this year, i have 4 kids now and I think its probably time to stop.

So i am training as a doula - if I can't 'be' pregnant, then i sure as hell can help those who are.

 

[Hillbilly]

Fingers crossed for my BFP in July

What on earth is BFP??