mmc :(

[dyscochick]

big hun, not much to be said but if you want to hear more about what happens and how, just ask xxxx

 

[kra0]

Hi dyscochick, yea that would be great if you could give me some info? Just to let you all know it's started.

Went to the toilet not long ago to find pinkish blood with red clots and now the blood is more of a yellowy orange colour. I phoned my early preg clinic and she said just to take it easy with painkillers and if Im filling more than 1 pad an hour to come in to them or go to casualty. I've stil to go to my scan nxt thurs to make sure everything came out ok. I actually feel slightly better now that it's happening and I'm not sitting waiting cos that's just so cruel! Our bodies can be bitches lol. I'm still obviously gutted though and feeling like poo but everything happens for a reason and this 1 just wasn't able to survive for reasons I'll never know xxxx

 

[dyscochick]

sorry read your other thread before this one, they'll check its all gone at the next scan, which if you aren't bleeding you can be fairly sure it has. Big hugs hun, you are being really strong xxxxx

 

[So_hopeful81]

Hi Kiera, how are you doing honey!
I've been thinking about you all week!!! Xxxx

 

[kra0]

Aww thank u, not great going from being ok to being devestated. Its the worst feeling ever xxxx

 

[Corrinne37]

It sure is hun!!!
It truly is an emotional rollercoaster!
Hows the kidney infection? xx

 

[kra0]

It doesn't seem as bad today thankfully! Spotting seems to have stopped for now too xxxx

 

[twinkles]

That's good news, be prepared it can stop and start again, once you have your scan thurs you will know what you have to do next, fingers crossed you are over the worst of it and you can start to get back to normal....

I'm so ready for this to be over, once next af Arrives I think we will try again, have u thought about it? X

 

[kra0]

Yea I think we are going to wait until next year until we hav settled into our new house and bought another, this pregnancy wasn't the best timing but was very much wanted! I am really hoping I don't have to go through a d&c!xxxx

 

[twinkles]

That's what I'm hoping too Hun, I think it really depends on what u think u van go through, the d&c is my last option because I have never been put to sleep before, go back now in 2 weeks for another scan and if there is still a pregnancy there that's the next step for me.....the managed mc is horrible but I would do it again if I had the option, it's a good sign u are already bleeding as mc has started so med mc may be enough for both of us, fingers crossed.....if u have any questions about it Hun feel free to ask xxx

 

[So_hopeful81]

Oh Keira, it's so hard! Don't beat yourself up for still being up and down! As far as your body is concerned, your hormones are still all over the place. Our bodies are so cruel!
As for the d and c- if it comes down to it, the d and c isn't so bad! First time I Mmc'd I allowed the baby to naturally come away! The second time I had a d and c. I found the 2nd time much easier. I think because I was asleep while the horrible bit happened! It's never ever easy- and don't get me wrong, it still devastated me. But I found actually going through the mc and seeing the baby come away was much much harder psychologically!
At the end of the day - you have to do what is best for you!
Bless you honey !!! Xxx

 

[k8_005]

Big hugs hunni its always so difficult when somethin like this happens x

 

[Corrinne37]

Thats what I thought so hopeful - to me D & C was the easy option,i just could bare go through the pain of feeling losing my baby and waiting for it to happen! So think you ladies are very brave!! xxxxx