I have a bit of a problem with my mother in law (who doesn't ). She's normally really nice and I get on well with her. Austin loves her and she's really good with him. The problem is, she's started being really bitchy about other members of the family to me. I always try to ignore her and change the subject but sometimes she just won't be budged! It's starting to make me really uncomfortable. I get on really well with OH's SIL, but she's the one my MIL bitches about the most - she's always critisizing her clothes, hair, how their daughter dresses etc. I'm also wondering if she bitches about me the same way? How can I get her to stop? I really don't want to confront her because she will hold a grudge for a long time.