Exactly!? If u don't know what it means don't bloody say it! He knows he's wrong and trying to turn it on you and that's not fair.. He's the one trying to change you.. And making u feel like shit don't let him convince you your blowing it up coz ur not! Men love to do that and you start thinking its your fault coz they say it is so often.. Let him read the messages he's sent you.. Really open up and tell him how he makes you feel.. If he doesn't apologise and just keeps to his 'it's your fault' routine then he's not worth it..