Ladies just over

[Lilelephant]

Gonna be a long night Orlando has been sleeping since about 4.30 on and off

 

[Hunnie]

Glad Lilly is feeling better! I always get worried when Sophie hasn't done a poo. Mrs Mc your picture is lovely!!

I feel a yummy mummy tonight! Had my hair cut and coloured for the first time since July . Nearly fell asleep while they were washing my hair though haha x

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Thanks hun she is defo happier now!!
Yeah I colored my hair and got my eyebrows done and I felt amazing after! Strange how something do small can make u feel so good!

 

[NinjaKitty]

Strange how something do small can make u feel so good!

That's what my husband keeps trying to tell me

Fess up, anyone actually DTD since bubs arrived?! I can't really relate to wanting sex right now

 

[Lettie]

) Nj it isn't that bad! We've had it at least once a week since 4wks, all still feeling good and normal but then Hubby and i were dtd all the way through up until labour started so we were both as keen as each other to get back to it! Sucks using condoms again tho -what a faff but don't want to go back ob the pill but equally don't want to be pregnant again just yet! ) Xx

 

[ForestLas80]

About to get dressed but don't know how I will when OH goes back to work! I can't seenu to manage it before midday. Xx

I was exactly the same a few weeks back but if u get help preparing clothes in advance u might grab a shower, if not then just get through first day feeding you and LO and don't worry about changing. It gets better so quickly u will be surprised. U can do it Hun xx

 

[Hunnie]

I'm dieing to get back to normal sex life but haven't got my jab sorted yet so till then it will have to wait. This surge has only come in the last few days, before that I couldn't have cared less about dtd.

 

[ForestLas80]

Only DTD twice since babba arriving tbh and first time was too early really as I was sore for days afterwards. Waited another week and was much better next time. Am on the Cerazette pill to make sure no more babies (for now!) don't have the same sex drive as before, hope it improves. Hubbie wants to DTD once a week too I will have to get back into the swing of things soon!!

 

[NinjaKitty]

TBH I've not quite finished bleeding from birth. Though it is very light now. However just thinking about DTD is not very appealing right now. And coz I had a C section it's not like I have to worry about down below being different. Dunno what we are gonna do about contraception. I don't really want to go back on hormonal stuff and I hate condoms.

 

[positivity :)]

we still haven't DTD mainly because i was bleeding for so long (3rd degree tear, lovely!) so i told OH i didn't want to do it until that stopped. it stopped about 10 days ago...but OH doesn't know that yet

i'm a bit nervous about the first time!! also, haven't sorted out contraception! xx

 

[pinkyprincess]

Tbh after not wanting anything to do with my OH during my pregnancy I have now 'got the urge' which is nice as I was slightly worried about what would happen to us if it stayed like that. I jokingly got him a pack of condoms in his stocking at Xmas so we have something in but I think I'll go back on the pill. He's tried it but I'd be worried about doing it before my 6 week check even tho I'm hardly bleeding and had a section. Also my 'area' is a Forrest as I'm worried about doing anything because the scars still healing!

 

[Lilelephant]

We haven't dtd but have been intimate. Like u pos I had a 3rd degree tear and also I had an epi I am terrified of full sex lol

 

[niknaks]

We dtd for the first time yesterday and it wasnt too bad. we used a condom and that was the worst bit. Made it feel uncomfy. Think I might go on the injection again. Don't trust the pill as was on it religiously when I got pregnant xxx

 

[Rachaellius]

Ok so I don't know whats wrong with me!? But my sex drive has gone through the roof we dtd from about 4 weeks and have done it loads ever since xx

 

[positivity :)]

Ok so I don't know whats wrong with me!? But my sex drive has gone through the roof we dtd from about 4 weeks and have done it loads ever since xx

Hope u got Ur contraception sorted lol xx

 

[Princess81]

We haven't yet I'm scared of getting pregnant again lol. I can't have hormonal contraception due to pcos so im getting the copper coil when l/o's 12 weeks. Don't like condoms - either of us. But I admit im feeling very guilty now!

 

[Rachaellius]

Ok so I don't know whats wrong with me!? But my sex drive has gone through the roof we dtd from about 4 weeks and have done it loads ever since xx

Hope u got Ur contraception sorted lol xx

I've not got any hormonal contraception sorted yet, I'm still deciding what to go for cos I'm rubbish with the pill. I'm making him use condoms for the time being though xx

 

[Lilelephant]

We always used condoms before ttc cos the pill gives me headaches lol!

 

[pinkyprincess]

I'm thinking about trying the patch

 

[Lilelephant]

Orlando got his first letter in the post