TORino
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I had the medical management option for my missed miscarriage yesterday and I appear to have been lucky in that it all came away in one piece and didn't take too long.
The bleeding isn't too bad and I haven't had that much pain so I am pleased on those accounts.
I would recommend this option for people who can't bear the wait of it happening naturally, overall it wasn't too bad and now I can have closure.
I am looking forward to getting my old life back, which sadly means removing myself from this forum. I've thought long and hard about it but for my own sanity I must take a step back from here. I came on here only after I discovered I was pregnant to share my experience with others in the same situation.
We weren't officially ttc and it was a kind of happy accident for us. This may sound odd to some but I am desperately trying to avoid getting in the situation of actively ttc because I think it is something that I would not enjoy and find particularly distressing. I don't want/need that kind of pressure. I can't be analysing every little symptom or lack of because I would quickly become obsessed which isn't good. I have already taken to googling about miscarriages and I have driven myself mad and convinced myself that I am going to have another miscarriage if it happens again. I simply will not allow myself to think like this because it is not healthy! I am putting this one down to bad luck and will think positive for the future.
So I am going to take stock and book a nice holiday (I always have some sort of holiday booked and this is one thing that can help me achieve normality again) . So I am planning a trip to New York/Miami and the Florida Keys. I am going to get back out on my mountain bike and playing netball again and just be me again.
I am really thankful for the help and support I have received from everyone on here, and truly wish the very best to everyone, whatever the stage in your TTC journey. xxx
The bleeding isn't too bad and I haven't had that much pain so I am pleased on those accounts.
I would recommend this option for people who can't bear the wait of it happening naturally, overall it wasn't too bad and now I can have closure.
I am looking forward to getting my old life back, which sadly means removing myself from this forum. I've thought long and hard about it but for my own sanity I must take a step back from here. I came on here only after I discovered I was pregnant to share my experience with others in the same situation.
We weren't officially ttc and it was a kind of happy accident for us. This may sound odd to some but I am desperately trying to avoid getting in the situation of actively ttc because I think it is something that I would not enjoy and find particularly distressing. I don't want/need that kind of pressure. I can't be analysing every little symptom or lack of because I would quickly become obsessed which isn't good. I have already taken to googling about miscarriages and I have driven myself mad and convinced myself that I am going to have another miscarriage if it happens again. I simply will not allow myself to think like this because it is not healthy! I am putting this one down to bad luck and will think positive for the future.
So I am going to take stock and book a nice holiday (I always have some sort of holiday booked and this is one thing that can help me achieve normality again) . So I am planning a trip to New York/Miami and the Florida Keys. I am going to get back out on my mountain bike and playing netball again and just be me again.
I am really thankful for the help and support I have received from everyone on here, and truly wish the very best to everyone, whatever the stage in your TTC journey. xxx
And never EVER get into a taxi in New York! I'm 3 for 3 re road accidents.
