It seems we are guests in this house!!

[FebMum2Be]

How did last night go Fi? X

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

I argued with Liam until 3am and then fell asleep pretty deeply. no interruptions x

 

[nikki8092]

Have you lived in the house long? Also do you think tension between you and OH has increased since the ghost has manifested itself? x

 

[Binzy]

Sorry you ended up arguing on top of everything else.
Such an interesting thread, do you think you are naturally more sensitive or is it something you acquired?

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

both i think x

I think that if you are open to things (either because you are very scared of them and therefore looking for them) or because you can see a deeper meaning in things that others might perceive as 'scary' then you are going to have more involvement.

I agree about the polterguiest being more connected to the house or usually to a person, thats why i thought it was my daughter for a while and until Liams dream that sort of made sense, that a spirit that was meant to be a part of our family couldnt not be and was upset that she was left out so to speak

but when Liam described her as a dark teenager that needs to 'shock' well that sort of blew that theory away, because our child would not want to shock us, she might want to be known to us or upset that shes not with us, but once we had established her being, it would be different...

anyway, i have a feeling its a young girl that is stuck to this house for some reason...

We have lived in the house for 5 weeks... tension between me and Liam... erm, i think that it hasnt helped and we would not have been awake at 2am if it wasnt for her lol

but i dont think anything like that could break our connection for each other, we are very close knit and yes he drives me potty (and i drive him potty) but we do take each other into account

if anything the raised tensions has just allowed us to voice a few feelings

its cool... ceremony in about half a hour so we will see how it goes!

 

[nikki8092]

Let us know how it goes, from what you are saying it seems like a troubled girl and maybe jealous at you and OH closeness thats why things have been like they have. Plus sleep deprevation wont help. So interested to know how it goes. x

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

all went well, sage has been burnt, ghost has been talked to and asked to stay in peace or leave. If that wasnt heeded we will take it further x will tell you how tonight goes xx

 

[nikki8092]

Does the atmosphere feel any different? Oh i hope it has worked for you. Fingers crossed x

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

to be honest the atmosphere has always been okay, its just the night, the dreams, the waking of the baby...

so we really have to see about it tonight x

 

[FebMum2Be]

I hope it's worked and that she will be peaceful and understand you want to help her x

 

[NinjaKitty]

Send out lots of love tonight when you go to bed and ask family and friends on t'other side to help and protect you. Lot and lots of positive energy. Have a good nights sleep. Xxx

 

[Smithy1980]

I hope it's worked and that she will be peaceful and understand you want to help her x

^^wss hope all goes well hun! Xx


Sent from my nearly buggared iPhone!!

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

well the energy in the house seems to be quite lovely tonight i must say

I am going to do our protection exercise again before we go to sleep tonight and i think i will sleep a lot easier

Also we are STILL no.1 for our house

so fingers crossed we are going to get it!

 

[Iriki]

Everything sounds really good. Hope you all get a good nights sleep and get your house too!!! X

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

here is a breakdown of our ceremony

Firstly we three stood in the living room, held hands and envisaged a beam of light coming down from the sky, surrounding us, surrounding each other and surrounding the house. This beam of light surrounds the house in a protective light bubble which then funnels back down into the earth

then I told the spirit what we were doing, i told her that we were performing a ritual of love and peace, and that we were not looking to harm her

i told her very clearly that we would not be engaging in any energy battles with her, that we would not accept negative energies in our home.

Then i opened all the windows in the house.

Then we three, moved around the house, *smudging with sage (i will explain smudging at the end)
making sure the smoke got into each corner of the house

As i moved around the house, smudging, i repeated that we were working with peace and love, asking positive spirits and the higher power of love and light to enter this place.

I continually (as i felt it) repeated that we would not be engaging in negative energy battles, that we would not accept negativity in this space

I smudged every room in the house, ending up in Jaspers room where the majority of the activity had taken place.

I once again repeated the protection mantra with the light

We sat on the floor and i spoke to the spirit calmly. I told her that we were aware she was there, that we understood she was asking for our help and that we were happy to help her. I told her that their was a world and a plane of other spirits who understood better than us her needs and that we opened up a opening to that world that she could cross over into as she wished. I told her we would do whatever we needed to do to protect our family and we would not give or receive negative energies in this house

i told her that if she wished to stay in this plane, she needed to do so with love and peace, not to try and get the attention of the human plane with her fear and shock. I told her that she had all the love, attention and respect she needed on the other plane, that she just needed to go there in her own time.

I asked my spirit family to protect and nurture her and help her find her way home.

I told my little girl that we loved her, would never forget her and that we would see her again in another body and we would love her for ever

I then asked the spirits and the angels to protect this spirit and asked them to take any negative forces out of this house

I told her that if the negativity continued, i would go to whatever length to protect my son, myself and my family. I will not engage in power battles with any spirit and that negativity is unacceptable in this house

I then did the protection mantra again, focussing on the bubble and announcing that no negative spirit was welcome inside this home.

I then thanked the angels, the higher power, my spirit family and Jaspers and we sat visualising our bubble, its light coming from the sky and its connection to the earth

we then broke the circle and had a beer


The house feels much better, perhaps we are silly and it meant nothing! Perhaps it was our way of dealing with our little girls death

regardless of what happened, the house feels much more comfortable and i felt happier putting Jasper down for the night

Love and Light to all xx

 

[tinks77]

Glad it went well and you feel the difference in the house tonight wether that be from actual happening or just your family's calmness after the ceremony.
Hopefully peace continues x

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

Glad it went well and you feel the difference in the house tonight wether that be from actual happening or just your family's calmness after the ceremony.
Hopefully peace continues x

I am happy with either x

 

[nikki8092]

All sounds good hun, let us know how your night went xx

 

[Lander]

Nice timing, just past new moon for new beginnings



Lxx

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

Last night was alright, i was VERY drunk and the baby woke up a couple of times... still, thats what happens i suppose!

hopefully he will get a good nights sleep tonight

Oh and the cat came back! Which is cool