It seems we are guests in this house!!

[Dragonfly Fi]

You lot will probably think i am MAD after reading this, after the samhain thread! But here is what is going on for us at the moment!

Right well, Over the last few weeks that we have lived here odder and odder things have started happening, none of it is too 'shocking' just yet but... well its got to the point where i would like some sort of 'action' to be taken

About 2 weeks ago i was in bed and i felt very strongly a female, young presence near me. I asked her to move away from me a bit as i do when any ghost gets into my vicinity as they do freak me out a bit. I have done this many times, lived with many ghosts (though i have to say, i have only met older ghosts, old men and woman who have shared a house with me and kept very much to themselves, this is a young ghost, perhaps 19-25

I asked her to move away from me and she got closer to me... i asked her again and again i felt her energy grow stronger. At this point i tried to walk myself up, she lifted my arm and pushed the small of my back so i was away from Liam

I pulled myself out of that strange half sleep and shook Liam awake. She left our bedroom at that moment and has not returned.

This wouldnt be such a problem, except she is 'hanging out' in the babies room. In the last week or so toys have fallen down without being moved, Jaspers wall hanging has fallen down and moved right across next falling next to his cot.

She has kept him awake a few nights, particularly after the incident with the waking me, she has obviously worked hard to get his attention at night

this is unusual for me, usually when entering a house i have announced mine and my families presence, asked to share the space with whatever is here already and been fine

I have also had a couple of dreams where a spirit has been crading the spirit of Jasper. That has worried me... in a 'will my baby get possesed like in a film' style way! LOL

Anyway, i dont get bad intentions from her, i dont think she is 'evil' just VERY strong and quite young

So i am asking for help, i have spoken to a good friend of mine who has reccomended a gentle and calming ritual which i wish to perform as soon as possible (probably this weekend) and i am going to communicate with my spirit family to ask them to help her as they continue to help me and allow her to find peace...

i am going to communicate with Jaspers spirit family to ask them to please protect him against anything on a spirit level that may harm or confuse him

If anyone has any advice or words that may put me at ease, i would love to hear them xx

 

[FebMum2Be]

I'm not sure what to say Fi, do you feel something has happened her that is drawing her to Jasper? Was it her room etc x

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

I think he is probably just the easiest for her to show herself too, i think if we all giggled at ghosts throwing toys around and talked to them like they were humans, they would show themselves to all of us

Jasper will have no understand that she is any different to anyone else

if that makes sense... they clearly have a relationship and i find it hard that he has a relationship with someone who i dont have a relationship with...

 

[Princess81]

Yes, do you sense any of the history? I don't have any advice I'm afraid, but I am so, so intrigued by all of it.

 

[FebMum2Be]

I understand what you mean, do you think the falling things is to get your attention rather than his?

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

2 girls lived here before us and we dont know why they left, i am thinking of just knocking on the door and asking the neighbours to be honest!

I spoke to my friend about her earlier on the phone and the line went all crackly and funny... Claire said she thought the ghost was interfering with the line...

 

[FebMum2Be]

Sorry questions galore but do you think it's you she is trying to interfere with the most, separating you from Liam in the bed, doing things in jaspers room (she knows how previous he is to you I'm sure) doing that to the phoneline? Is there any activity during the day? X

Edit: precious not previous

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

dont apologise for questions! Thats fine

She keeps putting the Caps Locks on on the computer tonight! Its happened three times when i have turned the computer off to do things! weird

Anyway...

I think that perhaps she realises (wether she realises it properly or not) that of the three of us, i am probably the most likely to help her out a bit... My friend had a very violent poltergiest who used to throw chairs around and they found out it was the uncle of a friend who wanted to tell his family that he loved them and knew that Claire would be able to help him do that.

I think that when i communicated with her so clearly, asking her to leave me be, she realised that i was going to take notice of the fact that she was there so there is probably something in that

but i think her relationship with Jasper is very innocent and tame... Actually, just as i type this i am realising, her relationship with Jasper is because he is so open to her as a person but her visions and communications with me are far more about her asking for help... so by me seeing a person holding my son, she is using our emotive bond (me and Jasper) to get attention herself.

I want to help her definitely, she obviously has something she needs to say or some peace she needs to find

Yeah, thats made me feel much better realising that...

 

[NinjaKitty]

Personally I would try and find a very experienced medium. I don't mean she should be forcibly evicted ( I think that this type of thing can cause more trouble). I mean someone who can help get to the bottom of what she needs to find peace. Difficulty is finding a genuine one that you trust.

Also I'd be talking to her all the time. It's just what I do if I feel that someone is around. Explain to her your concerns about Jasper etc.

Best of luck whatever you do.

 

[Lander]

All week I've kept thinking I'm seeing someone out of the corner of my eye, at work and here at home and put it down to me catching something through the edge of the lens of my glasses (which is like a bit distorted iykwim), but I've honestly just realised that it was happening still today and I have my contacts in..............

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

Personally I would try and find a very experienced medium. I don't mean she should be forcibly evicted ( I think that this type of thing can cause more trouble). I mean someone who can help get to the bottom of what she needs to find peace. Difficulty is finding a genuine one that you trust.

Also I'd be talking to her all the time. It's just what I do if I feel that someone is around. Explain to her your concerns about Jasper etc.

Best of luck whatever you do.

have been chatting to her alot since you posted this and its really helped

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

All week I've kept thinking I'm seeing someone out of the corner of my eye, at work and here at home and put it down to me catching something through the edge of the lens of my glasses (which is like a bit distorted iykwim), but I've honestly just realised that it was happening still today and I have my contacts in..............

what sort of energy do you feel from them Lander?

do you think they have a positive or a negative energy?

To be honest every ghost i have met has moved away from me when i have asked them too... apart from this one

my friend Claire lived with a violent polterguiest once, it used to throw chairs across the room! When they got to the bottom of its intentions, it turned out to be an uncle of a friend who wanted to tell his family that he loved them

so even the ones who feel really intense, often are quite harmless

 

[Sassysugar]

Do you think she is drawn to jasper because maybe she had her own baby?

I've never experienced anything but find it interesting as just because I can't see them doesn't mean they don't exist

 

[Lander]

All week I've kept thinking I'm seeing someone out of the corner of my eye, at work and here at home and put it down to me catching something through the edge of the lens of my glasses (which is like a bit distorted iykwim), but I've honestly just realised that it was happening still today and I have my contacts in..............

what sort of energy do you feel from them Lander?

do you think they have a positive or a negative energy?

To be honest every ghost i have met has moved away from me when i have asked them too... apart from this one

my friend Claire lived with a violent polterguiest once, it used to throw chairs across the room! When they got to the bottom of its intentions, it turned out to be an uncle of a friend who wanted to tell his family that he loved them

so even the ones who feel really intense, often are quite harmless

Relatively neutral, certainly not negative....

I hope it's supportive and a sign of good things to come, the fact that I'm Ov-ing, and this weekend is lil bro's wedding makes me feel like family/friends are here for the good times.... fx

Lxx

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

OMG last night was FREAKY! we had a bit of strange night the night before too (Jasper waking up...)

Anyway, maybe i need to feed him more? dunno how i Possibly could though, the kid is a monster!

I was lying in bed, asleep, i sort of half woke up and it felt like there was something over my head, like a blanket but pulled so tight it was stiff rather than soft. I could feel Liam next to me and i tried to push this 'ceiling' off me and it was stuck fast. So i grabbed hold of Liam and sat bolt upright in the bed, properly PROPERLY freaked out. I have never had that before.

Anyway, then i can hear all these weird bangs, in the bathroom in Jaspers room etc

Then Jasper starts screaming

OMG it was horrible, i am starting to get a bit freaked out now, what is the purpose of scaring me in this way? What is going on! I have been receptive and fine to the ghost, i think she must really need help i just wish scaring me wasnt her way of showing it

so scared of being here tonight

 

[FebMum2Be]

Fi that actually worried me, for you to say you are scared it must be bad, as from the way you have spoke about these things before you seem quite comfortable (not sure if that's the right word) communicating with them.. Is there anything you can do on Halloween to help her? How much longer are you in this house?

 

[NinjaKitty]

Seriously just talk to her and ask her nicely to stop. If you are uncomfortable seek advice and help. Do you have any spiritualist churches near you? It may be worth looking up. Though I would still want to get to know and trust someone before getting them to talk to her on your behalf.

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

i have asked her nicely to stop... many times...

liam woke up around 3am, paralysed, saw her...

anyway we are having a ceremony tomorrow and i hope it helps all of us xxx

 

[FebMum2Be]

I hope it goes well let us know what happens x

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

I think it will go well...

I think its our little girl