Intercourse pattern for your BFP??

[Seb]

Congrats clara! Im def gonna give smep a go next month, think I already o'd this month.

Congrats 2 everyone who has got a nice early Christmas pressie this month xx

 

[Fordee]

Just wanted to let you know that we didn't dtd on my supposed 'fertile' days at all. I didn't study my ovulation this month either. However, I do know that we dtd on a day that I got a LOT of EWCM - that was about CD7 (of a 26-28 day cycle).
I thought that was waaaaaaaay too early to make a BFP, but we have had a pretty uneventful month in the bedroom due to illness so I can pretty much pinpoint that that must have been the one that did it!
Checking your CM is the way forward, I'd say!

 

[CARNAT22]

1st time we did nothing apart from lots of sex (OH had been away for 2 weeks!)

2nd and 3rd time we made sure we had sex every day around my fertile window and then every other day through-out the rest of the month.

 

[Esperanza84]

We meant to "save" his little sodiers untill my ovulations, but when we had been without for 5 days we couldn't help ourselves...I had an positive opk the day after and than we also and I probably ovulated the day after that. Anyway, we got our bfp and I couldn't believe it!

Good luck!

 

[Karate Kid]

We were TTC for three months before we used OPK's, used the cheepie One Step OPK's and I am now five ish weeks pregnant.... it's carzy how small the window of oppertunity is!!

Good luck and loads of baby dust to all xx

 

[vixxie77]

Just goes to show everyone is different! It's such a miracle to conceive and we try and do what we can to help, but really it'll happen when it happens Just wish I could believe that and chill out lol x x

 

[babyem]

I got my BFP this month, and to be honest I didnt do much! I just stopped obsessing and getting stressed about it, and didn't bother working out which date to do it on, just did it when we fancied. x

 

[Joanne1982]

babyem - we were the same I had no idea when would be the best time to concive - we just carried on as normal and didnt put any pressure on ourselves - we had the attitude 'if it happens it happens' - i was on the pill for 13 years and it only took 3 months which i didnt exspect !- we were very lucky and are very excited for August when our little one is due to arrive. Good luck to the ladies that are trying I will have my fingers crossed for you every day and look forward to hearing you good news xx

 

[mrz85]

the month i started using eveing primrose i concived it makes you cervical mucus more which helps the sperm on its journey but only use it from your period to ovulation not after ovulation

 

[babyem]

I was told all the way through TTC, when you stop trying for a baby, you usually get one. Stress is the biggest thing that delays TTC sometimes, and worrying constantly about even conceiving and ovulation and all that jazz can cause major stress. I know nothing really about ovulation etc, because I didn't go into all the nitty gritty, wasn't worth the stress. I will learn about all that, but it will be bacause I'm training to be a nurse, not when I TTC in the future....

 

[JustMe1304]

Started monitoring my cycles August/ September ready for October... Got positive opk 13th dec.. Dtd 9,11,13... Got my BFP Xmas day ..

Good luck to you all xx

 

[Joanne1982]

congratulations JustMe1304 what a briliant christmas present i bet you was over the moon

 

[JustMe1304]

Thank you Joanne! Was amazing I'm very nervous but so excited!

Good luck to you lovely ladies!!! Xx