Miss j, this appointment sounds really positive! Things moving in the right direcition sure enough!!! Yaya for that! Witht he weight issue, u all know how I lose weight!!!! I stop eating all carbs for a month! Salads and fish and chicken and natural yogart with fruit n bran! But after I had my little girl I didn't have so much discipline, I found a gym with a pool and sauna and jacuzzi in a little hotel which wasn't busy and went there three times. Aweek! I bought smaller crockery, smallert plates and bowl so could put so much food on and I stripped thje house of anything yummy!!!!! In th e gym I did15 to satrt cycle or run and then did swimming, really good for slimming and not harsh on muscxles! As I said though I found a very quiet place !!!! Good luch darling x