tambo1976
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Hi Ladies, sorry for the upcoming rant but Im so bloody depressed atm and I wanted to get it off my chest.
6 years ago I divorced from the Dad of my 3 kids, I then met a wonderful new fella and we have been together for 5 years.
When I got divorced I had to move out of my house as my ex refused to budge, so me and my new partner got a house together in a new area. The problem is through divorcing and moving area I have lost touch with every friend I ever had through one reason or another and even though I am immensely happy with my OH I am so so lonely. It was very hard to keep my friends when I left as they were friends of both me and my ex and I needed to break free from that circle.
Because my children are older I dont get to meet other Moms through playgroups and such. We are TTC and I have no-one to share my thoughts with except my OH, and we all know that its just not the same as having a gossip with your mates.
I have never been close to my Mom and even if I was she lives an hours drive away, I also only have 1 brother who I have lost touch with as he suffers from mental issues. I am sadly not close to the rest of my family.
I used to have an awesome circle of friends and I miss them all so much, I just feel so sad most of the time when I see other women shopping together and sat in cafes enjoying a laugh over coffee.
I just wish I had friends in my life again to talk to about my hopes and fears of ttc at my age (Im 35 and worried Ive left it to late to have another).
Sorry everyone for the rant but Im just so sad atm and wanted to write down my thoughts. I hope I haven't depressed you
Babydust to all xx
6 years ago I divorced from the Dad of my 3 kids, I then met a wonderful new fella and we have been together for 5 years.
When I got divorced I had to move out of my house as my ex refused to budge, so me and my new partner got a house together in a new area. The problem is through divorcing and moving area I have lost touch with every friend I ever had through one reason or another and even though I am immensely happy with my OH I am so so lonely. It was very hard to keep my friends when I left as they were friends of both me and my ex and I needed to break free from that circle.
Because my children are older I dont get to meet other Moms through playgroups and such. We are TTC and I have no-one to share my thoughts with except my OH, and we all know that its just not the same as having a gossip with your mates.
I have never been close to my Mom and even if I was she lives an hours drive away, I also only have 1 brother who I have lost touch with as he suffers from mental issues. I am sadly not close to the rest of my family.
I used to have an awesome circle of friends and I miss them all so much, I just feel so sad most of the time when I see other women shopping together and sat in cafes enjoying a laugh over coffee.
I just wish I had friends in my life again to talk to about my hopes and fears of ttc at my age (Im 35 and worried Ive left it to late to have another).
Sorry everyone for the rant but Im just so sad atm and wanted to write down my thoughts. I hope I haven't depressed you
Babydust to all xx