I'm back after mc

[Wren83]

I've not been on here for a few weeks. I started bleeding at 7 weeks and had it confirmed I had lost the baby 3 weeks ago today. It's been an awful few weeks with that and a horrendous house move. Haven't felt like coming on here or discussing it but I thought I'd come on now and say hello x

 

[Melly41]

Hi wren, sorry about your mc. Its devasting when it happens. I had one coming up to 3 weeks ago. Had mmc at a scan 10+3 (stopped growing 8+3). I was really hard but found it really helpful chatting to a couple of other lovely ladies on forum who had mc at same time. Im 2dpo now but trying not yo hope to much as feel it wont happen until at least after first af if not after a few cycles! Not going to SS and going to try and keep busy during the dreaded tww!

Are you ttc again? Have you had your af since mc? Ive heard your first af is heavier and more crampy than usual so not looking forward to that.

I hope youre ok.will be nice to chat. Good luck with ttc.i hope our next beans are very sticky! X

 

[xMillie]

So sorry to hear this Wren

I miscarried at just 6+3 and like Melly I found it really helpful chatting with other ladies here that had been through the same.

Hope the next one is sticky xx

 

[Wren83]

Thanks girls. I don't even feel like I've dealt with the mc yet, someone announced their pregnancy a couple of nights ago and I had a cry then but really I still feel like I need a good cry to really deal with it all.
I think I'd like to leave it a month or two before trying again. I am dreading my first period, I had signs of ovulation last week (abundance of ewcm, really felt like rubbing salt into the wound) so I assume I'll come on late next week. I had a teeny bleed last night which shocked me as I thought I had come on a week early but that's stopped now. I do have a cough so I wondered if I had coughed too hard and damaged my cervix if it was sensitive from my mc, but not sure if that's eve possible. X

 

[Alexis2017]

Sorry to hear this sad news. Sending you virtual hugs !

 

[Melly41]

You are doing the right thing as it sounds like youre still struggling which is totally understandable. Im just glad you feel ready to start using the forum again for support. P.s a really good cry really does help...you feel awful but its does help xx

 

[Pidgeridoo]

So sorry for your loss! You've had it pretty rough recently by the sounds of it! There is always a friedly ear and tonnes of support on here though! I'm so glad to have it!

 

[JemRose]

Hugs Wren, can't imagine what you're going through xx

 

[KatD]

Oh Wren this was an enormous shock to read that you had lost your rainbow...words can't explain how sorry I am. I'm thinking of you hun...I hope that your emotions (and body) will be kind to you during this time.

 

[LuckyLaura]

So sorry to hear this hugss xxx I'm with the other girls, a good cry definitely helps and we are all here if u need anything xx

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[MarshallsS88]

Sorry to hear your sad news.
I miscarried back in January at only 5+3, but after 2 years of trying that was our little miracle, but for an unforeseen reason it wasn't meant to be.

I have really struggled with not having someone to talk to about it, I still find that I get upset when I see announcements of people being pregnant, especially friends, so my boyfriend has suggested I go and have some counselling to get it off my chest. Hoping that will help me. So when I go back and see my fertility doctor at the end of this month I'm going to ask for counselling before we start our treatment.

I'm sending lots of love and hugs your way. Try and keep your chin high xx

 

[_GG_]

Oh Wren, I am so so sorry. Yes, a good cry helps, but let your mind do it's thing in its own time and your body will take care of itself.

Huge hugs for you xxx

 

[stargirl]

So sorry you are going through this Hun.

 

[Jezby]

Hey Wren,

Adding my support - miscarried at 6wk4 (thought i was 9wks2) I'm March.., its a hard struggle and we have yet to conceive again. Today is my 36th birthday and tbh I feel pretty rubbish... hang in there everyone xx

 

[KatD]

Hey Wren,

Adding my support - miscarried at 6wk4 (thought i was 9wks2) I'm March.., its a hard struggle and we have yet to conceive again. Today is my 36th birthday and tbh I feel pretty rubbish... hang in there everyone xx

so sorry for your loss, Jez