I sooo want to tell people!.........

[JJ Mum]

I sooo want to tell people I am pregnant, but I just can't!

In case anyone is new on here - I went a full 11 weeks from late dec to march, before finding out that my baby had died and now pregnant again

This time I have told 4 friends , (3 are really close mums from school who knew last time and were a great support (we can never talk tho as the kids are always there!!) and one other old friend who is also TTC)

I have not told my mum or sister this time , not the kids, not work, no-one!

My kids are older, (we didn't tell them last time) , so none of my friends and family would ever believe I would have another child now and have any idea I have been pregnant for 18 weeks on and off again.

Argghhhhh I feel like I have been living a secret double life since december

Anyone else feel like this?

 

[hayels]

yes i do am dying to tell people i have told mum dad and my sisters but thats it. the first +second times i had told lots off people and then mc so will be keep quie till been for a scan and know if little one is in there but its so bloody hard!!!

 

[x.Lilly.x]

That must be really hard, not wanting to tell people.
but in a way I say go for it, what happens will happen hun and if I were you id rather have the excitement of being pregnant and tell people if you know what I mean than having to kinda hide your happiness and not tell people.
I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks 3 months ago, but I just feel like what will be will be.

 

[kellylou]

Its hard we struggled and even now i am worried i have jinxed myself we har the scan and now i am counting down the days to the 20 week scan and getting nervous again x i hope it all goes well for you and to see u in 2nd tri ij a few weeks

 

[vixforever]

Awww that must be hard hun!

Only told my nan yesterday even thought I'm visible she hadnt noticed, bless her

 

[MrsR]

Aw JJ, I know how hard it is wanting to yell it from the rooftops but feeling like you just can't! x praying your scan comes quickly so that you can tell everyone x x

 

[JJ Mum]

Thanks girls, there are alot of us that have had Mc in past arn't there , well done to us all for getting preggers again Hayels, Lillymum2Joe and congrats Helen123 on a successfull 20 week scan! there really is a light at the end of the tunnel for us all X

 

[JJ Mum]

Awww that must be hard hun!

Only told my nan yesterday even thought I'm visible she hadnt noticed, bless her

Oh that's so sweet , she didn't realise! well she only has anothe 22 weeks till she is a grand parent again then ,less for a wait for her X

 

[evie_smith]

I wouldn't say anything I wanted to tell everyone but I stayed quiet just throught of it as my own little lovly secret a time to have baby liturally all too myself x

 

[PinkPunch]

were telling my parents soon, can't wait! not telling anyone else til after the scan though

 

[Ndobins]

I make you all right there... its so hard keeping it quiet. I went for my 12 week scan 10 days ago, to find my baby had stopped growing at 8 weeks, we had both told so many people on the saturday b4 ( you think u can at 12 weeks). One thing tho is we have had so much support from those people we told.

We are defo keeping it quiet next time tho until after 12 week scan, just WTT now.

Good luck to u all, and looking forward to TTC very soon. xx

 

[vixforever]

Awww that must be hard hun!

Only told my nan yesterday even thought I'm visible she hadnt noticed, bless her

Oh that's so sweet , she didn't realise! well she only has anothe 22 weeks till she is a grand parent again then ,less for a wait for her X

Well she is 77 and cant see very well, bless her! Her second great grandson

 

[kazimotto]

hi jj, i'm the same, dont want anyone to know cos if anything happens dont want all the attention like last time, so i am keeping secret too but dying to shout it out, just too scared!x

 

[Mrs_B]

I know how are you feeling. I only just got my bfp and I want to tell the world. Thank goodness I have you guys here.

I have told hubby - obviously, lol. I am going to tell my mum and my best friend, but that will be it until I have had a scan and know all is ok.

I figure they are the people I want to support me just incase it doesnt work out. Am obviously hoping that isnt the case, but I am trying to keep level headed.

Although if the sickness gets worse I may have to tell my boss!

 

[JJ Mum]

Thanks lots girls , yes Mrs B , your exactly right there , I don't know what I would do without you girls on here, I can talk aout anything without being judged and tell you I'm pregnant with no worry, and know if something bad happens, you will all be there for me

XX Loving the PF comunity XX

 

[LilyMac]

I know how you feel. I want to tell everyone but know its best to keep quiet for now. We told my parents right from the start as we were living with them at the time and I couldnt hide the sickness or the midwife coming round!! We have our first scan on thursday and the past few weeks waiting has really dragged, I just cant wait to get thursday over with and make sure everything is ok and then Im gonna shout it from the rooftops!
Everyone on these forums are fantastic, I dont think Id have stayed sane if it werent for being able to talk to you guys!!

 

[rainbow dancer]

you are all very supportive on here and its so reassuring (new to forum), i have told my parents and mum in law and thats it, would love to tell my friends but hubby doesnt want to tell anyone else yet at this stage. Very hard to keep it from loved ones!!.xx

 

[LilyMac]

Aaah Rainbow, it is hard but itll be even more exciting when you get to show everyone a picture of your little bean!
I really wanted to tell everyone but managed to keep my mouth shut and in a couple of days Ill be able to scream it from the rooftops and have something to show everyone, I think thatll make it more special
xx