Geordie&Bairn
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Sorry in advance its long!!!
This is dedicated to the man that makes me happier then ive ever been in my life.
James has every second of every day the past 3 weeks demonstrated his stength of character and persoanlity his sweet kind and caring nature and his deep felt love for myself and our Son.
I had one hell of a birthing experiance trying to get Collier to come out and meet the world. And James was there for me every step of the way he held me close and comforted me when i became upset and cried he held me when i was in pain and frightend. He stood tall and strong and protected me like ive never been protected before he cheered me on and encouraged me when i felt i couldnt take anymore.
He was so attentive to my every need getting me a drink when i was thirsty using the mini fan to cool me down tolorating my musicbless him (he hates pop
)
stroking my hair and looking me holding my gaze and telling me he loved me and was proud of me for trying to give birth naturally
after every knock back we had.
He went with our sleep to stay with me untill they chucked him out and he came back first thing every morning
James had tears in his eyes of joy when i finaly got to push he was so happy for me as he kew how much it ment to me and he had tears of support and pain at seeing how devistated i was to be told i had to have a c section if the vontouse didnt work.
He never once left the room at any of the yucky stuff he didnt flich at the blood or gunk that appeared and he was there for me when i tried pushing holding my hand and telling me i was wonderful and fantastic.
James kissed my forehead and placed his forhead agianst mine and looked at me keeping me focused on him through out the needles being admiistered (im scared of needles) and the epidural and Vontouse not working and then thought out the c section procedure
And the look of pride and love in is face as he looked at me i will never ever forget i fell so very very deeply in love with him and i could see he felt the same way it was the most moving experiance ive ever felt.
And then our son arrived and i feel ever more for my beautiful man as i watched him hold our son for the first time and i saw the pure joy and love as he looked down at Collier.
He brough Collier over and i stroked my Sons head for the first time and James burst into tears of happiness which set me off too.
After James continued to support me, i was in Hospital for 3 more days and in a hell of a lot of pain he fed me the first day and changed me blood filled sanitry towels with out batting an eye. He helped me get dressed and undressed and when i could finaly get up he helped me in and out of bed and supported me to the toilets. And gave me body massages to relive the pain in my back and tummy.
He changed Collier and held him when the pain was to much for me and i couldnt move
And this continued when we got home he looked after me making sure i took my pain killers and Iron tablet he made sure i ate properly and made all the meals did the washing up cleaned dried the clothes helped me in and out of bed helped me dress un dress as i was still in a lot of pain.
And for the last 2 weeks as i recovered weve worked together learning a new side to eachother and a deepening of respect and awareness of each other has grown and strenghtned
we our so in tune with how we both want to bring up Collier and weve become a brilliant team respecting sharing our ideas and the care of Collier and the chores and learning adapting to parent hood and taking on challenages head on together.
HES A WONDERFUL MAN, PARTNER, SOUL MATE AND A EXCELLENT DADDY
I AM PROUD AND FEEL PRIVALIGED TO SAY HES MY MAN AND HES THE DADDY TO MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is dedicated to the man that makes me happier then ive ever been in my life.
James has every second of every day the past 3 weeks demonstrated his stength of character and persoanlity his sweet kind and caring nature and his deep felt love for myself and our Son.
I had one hell of a birthing experiance trying to get Collier to come out and meet the world. And James was there for me every step of the way he held me close and comforted me when i became upset and cried he held me when i was in pain and frightend. He stood tall and strong and protected me like ive never been protected before he cheered me on and encouraged me when i felt i couldnt take anymore.
He was so attentive to my every need getting me a drink when i was thirsty using the mini fan to cool me down tolorating my musicbless him (he hates pop
)stroking my hair and looking me holding my gaze and telling me he loved me and was proud of me for trying to give birth naturally
after every knock back we had.
He went with our sleep to stay with me untill they chucked him out and he came back first thing every morning
James had tears in his eyes of joy when i finaly got to push he was so happy for me as he kew how much it ment to me and he had tears of support and pain at seeing how devistated i was to be told i had to have a c section if the vontouse didnt work.
He never once left the room at any of the yucky stuff he didnt flich at the blood or gunk that appeared and he was there for me when i tried pushing holding my hand and telling me i was wonderful and fantastic.
James kissed my forehead and placed his forhead agianst mine and looked at me keeping me focused on him through out the needles being admiistered (im scared of needles) and the epidural and Vontouse not working and then thought out the c section procedure
And the look of pride and love in is face as he looked at me i will never ever forget i fell so very very deeply in love with him and i could see he felt the same way it was the most moving experiance ive ever felt.
And then our son arrived and i feel ever more for my beautiful man as i watched him hold our son for the first time and i saw the pure joy and love as he looked down at Collier.
He brough Collier over and i stroked my Sons head for the first time and James burst into tears of happiness which set me off too.
After James continued to support me, i was in Hospital for 3 more days and in a hell of a lot of pain he fed me the first day and changed me blood filled sanitry towels with out batting an eye. He helped me get dressed and undressed and when i could finaly get up he helped me in and out of bed and supported me to the toilets. And gave me body massages to relive the pain in my back and tummy.
He changed Collier and held him when the pain was to much for me and i couldnt move
And this continued when we got home he looked after me making sure i took my pain killers and Iron tablet he made sure i ate properly and made all the meals did the washing up cleaned dried the clothes helped me in and out of bed helped me dress un dress as i was still in a lot of pain.
And for the last 2 weeks as i recovered weve worked together learning a new side to eachother and a deepening of respect and awareness of each other has grown and strenghtned
we our so in tune with how we both want to bring up Collier and weve become a brilliant team respecting sharing our ideas and the care of Collier and the chores and learning adapting to parent hood and taking on challenages head on together.
HES A WONDERFUL MAN, PARTNER, SOUL MATE AND A EXCELLENT DADDY
I AM PROUD AND FEEL PRIVALIGED TO SAY HES MY MAN AND HES THE DADDY TO MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!
