I don't know how much longer I can do this :(

[MrsMushroom]

Girls, I'm feeling so down tonight. After my stupid ICs tricking me again and then a big fat "you're not pregnant" on a Superdrug at lunchtime, I feel so shit

I've had such mad preggo symptoms yesterday and today, my body is just being awful to me after taking the soy. I wish I'd never touched it!

When AF shows up on Friday, and she will, I just know it! We'll be going onto our 14th month of TTC'ing our second baby (third baby if you count my mc in November) and I know there are tons of women out there who have been trying so much longer, but I just don't know how many more BFNs I can take before I just decide enough is enough. Right now i just want to give up completely

At what point do I go to the docs and ask for tests or help? I've been pregnant twice so I know I ovulate, so what would they do? What could be causes of secondary infertility?

I've just bought myself a bottle of wine and might have a good old cry on my own tonight.

Meh!

 

[Esperanza84]

Im so sorry you feel this way. You man could have low sperm count - we have low sperm count (or oh) ad that's why we take a long time to conceive too

I would go to the doctor now and ask for the tests! They take your bloods and your oh needs to hand in a sperm sample. I also had an internal scan!

I'm not sure if you will get more help - but at least it is better to know what's the cause of it! I was put on clomid and that month I got my bfp which is now my dd. I'm thinking about going back to this doc in April if nothing has happend by than and ask for clomid. I've also started saving for ivf!

I hope you get some answers soon!!

xx

 

[jojo3972]

Bless ya I know exactly how u feel I'm fed up ATM aswel just can't see an end to all the ttc and let downs 2 yrs 4 months I been trying now with 3losses each month that brings my af chips a bit of my hope away , the soy was horrible the symptoms it hives u is just horrible , u should try the royal jelly maybe has gd reviews aswel xxx

 

[JJ Mum]

Oh Mrs Mushroom, I'm sorry your having a right tough time of it, I felt the same with the soy, it messed with my body and my head.. But I did feel it made me ovulate or kick somethign off perhaps..

If AF arrives, why don't you make an appointment for the docs, so you have it there, it really can't hurt, or hinder anything, but it starts the ball rolling and you can see what help or advice you could get, while your ttc.
You may feel more in control, doing something , and feel a little more positive, esp going into a brand new cycle soon.

 

[jojo3972]

It did for me first go I got my bfp but it did not last long ( xxx