hsg test

[rach29]

Hi ladies. I've been 2 years ttc
The first 6/7 months was really just ntnp and i have had odd months off here and there in the remaining time, but its been a really loooong slog!

I've had ov tests and thats come back i am ovulating, and OH's SA has come back in the normal range (though she did say it could be better)
af's turned up again this morning so im to ring monday and get booked in for an HSG test. I really worried and nervous about the results. Im not sure if im more scared that there is a problem or if there isnt...

My partner and i, already have 2 children who are going to be 7 and 9 next month. I feel like if they tell me there is a problem and i cant have anymore children then even though ill be devasted, at least ill be able to start dealing with it and start moving on with my life, whereas if there is no problem then its a case of unexplained infertility. I'm always going to have it in my head... what if this is the month, what if we manage to make a baby?!

I just know i cant keep on like this it hurts so badly, do you think that maybe there comes a time when enough is enough? Maybe having another baby just isnt what is ment to be for me??

Sorry for the witter, its just good to be able to get all the thoughts that go round in my head xx

 

[Trina]

I don't really have any advice as I'm just starting on this road (1 year ttc and now booked in for blood tests), but I just wanted to send hugs.

I think I would rather have the tests show something because at least that could give me a chance to fix it than have unexplained and just never know.

Good luck and I hope the hsg goes well xx

 

[vegas]

I'm the same I'd rather they were bit blocked so could fix it. Unfortunately for me mine were clear so unexplained fertility so referred for ivf

 

[rach29]

Hi girls. And thankyou for your replies.
well im booked in thurs afternoon for hsg, so i guess i will just have to wait to see how i get on then. I'm so nervous. I think your both right though at least if they do find a blockage or something there maybe something they can do...
I hope you get some answers yourself soon trina, and good luck with the ivf refferal vegas.
How are you both feeling/dealing with your ttc journeys? Xx

 

[Poispinner]

I know what your saying about wishing there was a problem so you could fix it or at least know (im in the same position) but look on the bright side and think "at least there are no problems", nothing that could stand in the way of assisted fertility or even falling pregnant when you least expect it. We have to look at the positives ladies else we will go insane!! Keep smiling and fingers crossed for us all! xx

 

[vegas]

You've made a good point there. I must be more positive, just hard sometimes when everyone around u is getting pregnant without much effort. I'm feeling ok at the min. Every month that passes and I'm not pregnant I'm trying to think on the bright side that that's extra money in the savings and the longer it goes on the more money I'll have saved up.

 

[Poispinner]

Good way of thinking that Vegas. I know what you mean about it being hard when everyone around you is pregnant especially if not planned! But our time will come and it will be the right time and the most "specialest" of babies!! X

 

[rach29]

Yes your both right girls, im soo at the point were im sick of staying posative, but your right we cant give up hope!
Had hsg today and both tubes are clear, so i guess we gotta just keep on trying! She did say sometimes people concieve after having it done so im gonna keep my fingers crossed xxx

 

[vegas]

Yeah that's what I heard too. It's just a big waiting game

 

[Poispinner]

Yea I have also heard that although trying hard not to get my hopes up! Fx for us all xx

 

[vegas]

One of my family members had hsg then fell pregnant straight away . I'm not that lucky though. Ha

 

[rach29]

I very much doubt i'll be that lucky too lol xx

 

[vegas]

Yeah thought not, af arrived

 

[rach29]

Ohno sorry vegas
where are you upto with your ivf referral? Have you spoke to anyone about it yet? Xx

 

[vegas]

Got appointment 4 weeks on Monday. Got that to look forward to now I suppose

 

[rach29]

Yep definatly hun. Its a step closer isnt it, hope these next 4 weeks go quickly for you xxx

 

[hopingforbabyf]

Vegas I think our appointment at infertility clinic is the day after yours. Do you have any idea what's wrong yet or is it unexplained?

 

[vegas]

It's unexplained at the min. All the tests we've had so far have been clear.

 

[vegas]

What tests u had? They all fine?

 

[hopingforbabyf]

What tests u had? They all fine?

Must be hard with it being unexplained. You don't want something to be wrong but when it's like this sometimes it's better knowing what it is.

I had bloods, swabs and scans early 2014 which showed nothing (just checking hormone levels etc as I had constant spotting/bleeding). We started ttc feb 2014 but just tried to sort my periods first which worked after a couple of months on the pill but then periods started coming every 2 weeks. Mentioned to the dr about ttc about September and started weekly blood tests which showed no ovulation. Hubs has had his sa too which was fine so just waiting for our first appointment in a few weeks.

Not sure what to expect from the first one or what will happen. I assume they will try clomid to make me ovulate but not sure if they will want to check my tubes first?!