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bit of a personal question really but most of us aren't backwards about coming forwards on here!
me and OH were just discussing our money situation. he was saying that he is going to save some money for the 'unpaid' part of my year off.
when we spoke about me going back to work after maternity leave, he suggested (for my benefit apparently) that we put our money together, he pays all the bills out of it and then when i want or need anything i.e. my hair done, i just take the money.
financially there would be more money for me available that way as he earns nearly double my salary. but for me, i can't imagine not having my own money, paying my own bills even if it means im left with less.
what do you guys do? up until now we have both earned our own money. we both pay half the mortgage and bills and keep what we have left to ourselves which for him is nearly double what i have.
what is the right thing to do? when i go back to work i won't be able to pay for half of everything so he will have to pay out more which he accepts but i dont want to be left with next to nothing while he has his extra money when the reason i have less money is because i'm going part time to look after our baby.
sorry for the long post, just feel a bit unsure about it all really.
xx
me and OH were just discussing our money situation. he was saying that he is going to save some money for the 'unpaid' part of my year off.
when we spoke about me going back to work after maternity leave, he suggested (for my benefit apparently) that we put our money together, he pays all the bills out of it and then when i want or need anything i.e. my hair done, i just take the money.
financially there would be more money for me available that way as he earns nearly double my salary. but for me, i can't imagine not having my own money, paying my own bills even if it means im left with less.
what do you guys do? up until now we have both earned our own money. we both pay half the mortgage and bills and keep what we have left to ourselves which for him is nearly double what i have.
what is the right thing to do? when i go back to work i won't be able to pay for half of everything so he will have to pay out more which he accepts but i dont want to be left with next to nothing while he has his extra money when the reason i have less money is because i'm going part time to look after our baby.
sorry for the long post, just feel a bit unsure about it all really.
xx