How many kids do you want?

[Urchin]

I'd like one more I think, not likely to get it though, OH is happy with just the 2.

How about you?

Vote for what YOU want, then post about OH's views if they differ

 

[monaloco]

congratulations Kay

We think we want 3 but not sure yet as 1 seems to be a handful so far but we'll see how it goes!!!!

 

[lauramumof2]

I was always adament that I just wanted to have 1 as we had so much trouble getting pregnant but Jessica is such ray of light in our lives that the thought of that ray being doubled was just too much and we decided to have another but 2 is it. Im sure. At least I think im sure.

Kayl, thats fab news, you are a dark horse.

 

[hearts81]

I haven't voted because I dont know yet. have always said I want 3, 1 boy and then 2 girls but when we had Reece Oh said he had a boy and that's all he would want But now I'm begining to think that one would be just fine as babies are soooo much responsibility and I dont want to end up so stressed that I cant cope with 2+, and as I love Reece so much I cant imagine having to make him share my love!

 

[Yvonne]

Wow kayl, bit unexpected but Congrats.

I am sticking with the 2 i have- Andy wants 2 more and i would glady have them if i didn't have the problems to go with it.

I am counting myself lucky i was able to have 2 and one of each sex.

 

[Kim]

I want one more and oh agrees as rubie is his 4th lol

i'd ideally like another girl

 

[hearts81]

I want one more and oh agrees as rubie is his 4th lol

i'd ideally like another girl

No boys?!! You've gotta have a lil boy! lol I though everyone would want a boy as everyone says they are so much easier to handle (not sure if its true though )

 

[Kim]

My Oh has 2 boys and a girl from a previous relationship and the 2 boys live with us. Believe me I would have 20 girls over 1 boy any day!!

 

[petchy]

two or three! i put three, but that is our limit!!! well MY limit anyway, OH would be happy to have over 5 he says!! no way!

 

[kellie80]

I said all the way through my pregnancy with Aimee i would like 1 more so i'm happy to leave it at 3. OH wanted to stick at 1 and it took me almost 5 years to talk him round, them he said if were gonna have 2 we may as well have 3.

 

[Jo]

I dont want to end up so stressed that I cant cope with 2+, and as I love Reece so much I cant imagine having to make him share my love!

I am sticking 2, at least i think i am OH agrees with me as he hated seeing me so ill

Hazel i tottaly know what you mean about sharing your love thats why it took me until Emily was 4 1/2 and at school to try again, and it's so true what people say about coping with 2 or more better than 1 especially if there is a good age gap, at least i think so

When i was PG with Jack at my antenatal i saw this girl with a toddler a babe in arms and a bump!!!!!!! and all i could think was "Oh my god i would never cope with that"

 

[Strangeness]

I am happy with one right now. Me and dh want to get our first wedding anniversary over with first and then we're gonna talk about another baby but I dunno if I could cope with a c section again and Aaron is such a handful as a baby, he's too hyper! Nah maybe one more in a year or so, watch this space

 

[BubbleOne]

I have always wanted 3 children. But want to space them out a bit. Maybe 2-3yr age gaps.

OH would love 4 children (already has 4 from a previous marriage so 8 kids )

 

[Emmylou]

I clicked 2 as thats what i'd be happy with, maybe would go to 4 max if OH smiles nicely enough! I am 1 of 4 and was great growing up with my brother and sisters, Chris is an only child and he wants loads and loads of kids, as he was really lonely growing up - just him and his mom so he says he was bored a lot of the time, wants to turn me into a baby making machine, he has said 12 would be enough - we had to have a little chat! lol

 

[BubbleOne]

Congratulations Kayl

Great news

 

[emilia]

I wanted 3... DH wanted 2! Need I say more.... nothing a pair of black velvet gloves and handcuffs can't sort!!

It took 9 years to convince DH... I blamed my biological clock!

Emilia xx

 

[Hypnorm]

I think 2 would be fine. though 3 keeps coming in to my head!!lol

KAYL - Congrats!! kept that quiet.

 

[Rosieroo]

Congratulations Kayl You can come join me in first tri now!!

I'd like 4 I think. Another one is on the way, then I'd like a gap til Ella and baby starts school, then another 2 close together

 

[Xena]

I'd like either 2 or 4. I've voted 4, but unless we get a house appropriate for four kids we're gonna just have 2 and that's it. But ideally 4.

 

[Lindsay]

I have voted for 2. We are going to start trying for baby number 2 next year. I would like a little sister for Jacob but if we get a little brother we have loads of clothes that he can have!!

DH wants 2 children, I said that if we get another little boy, we could try for a girl as number 3 - he said no cos if we got another boy we couldn't keep trying and trying!!! He has said that he is going to have the snip after number 2

Xxx