How long should you TTC before seeking help?

[HayleyB]

Me too!!!
I didn't mean to sound scary when i said about the friend of a friend...
I don't think your body is the same, just wanted to let you know that they do help even if they find something "not quite right"



just hope you get BFP soon xoxoxox

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Thanks honey, there may be hope for me yet. only time will tell!

 

[HayleyB]

Theres lots of hope for you hun!
As they keep saying to me "you're young, thats a good thing going for you"

xox

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Yeah true. Im only 20 so theres a few years of mileage left in me lol!

 

[HayleyB]

Just a couple of years!!

Am off to bed now! got a masssssssssssssssssive headache!!

Night all xox

 

[Little Miss Joslyn]

it was the doctor that put me on them hayley. i got a letter from the hospital regarding the other test i had before the ovulation one but I think that one was for rubella! not due to see them til 27th September but couldnt wait til then so went to see the doctor and he prescribed Clomid.
must be hormonal as i was getting positive results on the opks too and all i can think is that i must feel the time of ovulation but not actually ovulate! Would explain why i havent fallen pregnant though !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Have been an emotional wreck the last few days and even cryed down the phone to my boss which will be very embarrasing tomorrow. i told her i went for a test to see of I was anemic as I get very heavy periods and she told me to let her know the results! What do I say?

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Night hayley xxx

I dont know what u should say to ur boss, it sounds quite embarrassing lol! Just say everything was fine and hide behind a newspaper lol!

 

[Wobbles]

Boss is female? Is she a nice boss?

If so I would probably open up to her so she's aware of your possible emotional state right now but keep the info within your bosses office

x x

J you'll be fine honey they say the average fertile couple can be trying for months before suceeding! You WILL get there again x

 

[HayleyB]

I'm in the wrong medical district.... need to transfer my doctor down to kent!! My GP was happy to prescribe me clomid but they changed it recently so i had to be refered to the hospital gyne consultant and the fat consultant won't give it to me!!

I would just be honest with your boss, my manager is male and gay, and he knows exactly whats going on in my life at the moment! (bless him!) Bet he sits there thinking "now i remember why i don't like women.... too complicated!!!!"

xox

 

[Little Miss Joslyn]

Hope everyone is ok and looking forward to the weekend.
Well, I took your advice Wobbles and Hayley and told her as she approached me in the coridoor! Think she knew as the whole department know that im trying for a baby! She was very understanding and told me I need to relax and that all tablets have side effects and not to worry! i had a dream last night that I had a baby with three heads due to the clomid tablets Your boss sounds a right laugh Hayley and i must agree with him on that one as my OH is so laid back and i always make a mountain out of a molehill! lol
About the GP prescribing the tablets, I think I was supposed to wait til my hospital appointment on 27th september to find out the results but i couldnt wait that long! the gyno consultant also told me to relax and not to chart or do the ovulation sticks but I went out and bought a thermometer today! he he
I dont know why Jayceemumma, but I thought you were much older! must be being a mummy makes you more mature. Hope you get your BFP soon so Jaycee has a little brother or sister. x

 

[HayleyB]

Graham (DH) is so laid back he's almost asleep constantly!!!
I always manage to make a mountain out of a molehill too!!!

 

[Little Miss Joslyn]

Think its our hormones hayley. thats my excuse anyway! he he. I have PMT all the time but he gets IBS. (Irritable Bloke Syndrome)

 

[arcanegirl]

Graham (DH) is so laid back he's almost asleep constantly!!!
I always manage to make a mountain out of a molehill too!!!

G sounds just like Rob lol!
I make mountains too, i worry way to much over the simplest thing

 

[HayleyB]

ha ha, sounds like its definately a hormone girly thing!!!!

xox

 

[Little Miss Joslyn]

I think i need something to stop me from worrying but then I would worry that I had nothing to worry about! lol x

 

[HayleyB]

i'd be exactly the same!!!!