How are all you new mummies doing?

Kaedin him asking if you want your clothes is just him trying to rub salt in the wound so to speak.. Just cos he said this doesn't necessarily mean it's what he wants, he's probs trying to make you feel bad. Just focus on the now and try not to look too far into the future and take each day as it comes who knows what's round the corner, he'll know doubt be asking for you back in a weeks time or you might find you get on better apart which is what Hayley and you need. Just keep thinking that you know it's for the best at least for now.. Your doing a great job you and Hayley need each other right now she will give you the strength to get through it :) chin up x
 
You guys will not believe this, hayleys dad just text me asking if I could please transfer money to him. Can't help but laugh, is he mental!! He kicks us out our home, ive been watching hayley alone since Friday and he expects me to fund his drinking, living in our home and driving the car we got when together.

Haven't replied to the text yet as all I want to type is 'lol no.'
 
Lovely photos toria!

We've been for a walk in the woods today and visited mine and OHs mam :)

Stanley today


 
Wtf is he thinking kaedin have just read back through the last posts, can not believe way he has done. U poor thing have to do deal with thus n a lo too. No real advice just wanted to say u r doing a fab job n don't let anyone tell u otherwise.

Cute photos ladies. Jojo love the messy photo!!

Michelle.x
 
Wtf is he thinking kaedin have just read back through the last posts, can not believe way he has done. U poor thing have to do deal with thus n a lo too. No real advice just wanted to say u r doing a fab job n don't let anyone tell u otherwise.

Cute photos ladies. Jojo love the messy photo!!

Michelle.x

I second this... You're doing wonderfully. Even though I think he's a disk for throwing you out I also think maybe being at your mums is better than being along in the house right now

Also that pic was when he decided to pub his mouth and then his eyes and face lol
 
Kaedin I hope your ex smells the fresh air soon! I'll feckin drive to Scotland and sort him out otherwise!!

Chin up! I mirror what the other ladies have said! Xx
 
Omg kaedin is he having a laugh??! I just wouldn't even reply, you've been doing this on your own anyway you can totally do this without him - he's the one who's going to realise he needs you not the other way around! Def find sme groups local to your mums and get out and about it will make you feel so much better xx
 
Thanks for your support ladies. I text back just saying no I will not, I'm sure he'll be an arse in his reply. He honestly must have lost his brain to think I would give him money. I only have 70 pound to last me until I get paid SMP next month! This has reminded me why I can't be with him, just need to remind myself instead of feeling heartbroken and sad.

Cute pic!

Aww that's rubbish Bex! Hope he stops being sick soon. I'm still waiting for gp to tell me what dosage hayley can get of ranitidine..hate the wait as she had a really bad day. Choked on acid when lying on her back earlier. Stressing me out
 
What a complete dick. I seriously cannot believe he has the nerve to even ask.

I really hope he smells the coffee soon and you do what's right for you Kaedin.

As the others have said you are doing an amazing job so don't think otherwise. You'll sort out your finances and be absolutely fine.
 
Can't believe your babies are still so sick! What a worry, especially the choking part :-( x
 
Aw bless you Kaedin he is being a complete prick. Bex I hope he is feeling better today. We have had a nice family day today as hubby had the day off. Went and bought Joseph some more toys. Popped to my Mam's to the way back and got told off for not getting my knee checked out. x
 
I think hubby has finally lost the plot. He has just put this on facebook
''Just wants to say he has the most amazing and beautiful wife on earth. No i am not after anything / fraped i just wanted to say it !'' Waiting to see what he asks for now ha ha xxx
 
I'm excited! My brother is visiting for 5 whole days! He's only ,et Luke twice - when he was 2 weeks ld, when he was 2 months and now at 4 months :)
 
Had Emma weighed this morning. 16lb13! Asked them to measure her too as I'm finding the 6-9 month stuff too short for her. Anyway she's now 65cm. had a massive growth spurt as she's got from 9th centile to 75th for height! Still tracking the 75th for weight.
 
I'm going to get like weighed on Friday

Luke's 3-6 tops still fit but the bottoms are ahort but the waist for the 6-9 are jus too wide for his little belly so he's in short most of the time. Doesn't dit in any if his sleep suits now

I'm putting all his 0-3 stuff into vacuum bags as the canvas boxes are gettingn full. Sad times.

He was sitting on the sofa before with his back to the arm rest and he fell forward and pulled himself up on his arm, then without using his hands at all he just sat up straight and back again! We did a double take lol
 
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I'm going to get like weighed on Friday

Luke's 3-6 tops still fit but the bottoms are ahort but the waist for the 6-9 are jus too wide for his little belly so he's in short most of the time. Doesn't dit in any if his sleep suits now

I'm putting all his 0-3 stuff into vacuum bags as the canvas boxes are gettingn full. Sad times.

He was sitting on the sofa before with his back to the arm rest and he fell forward and pulled himself up on his arm, then without using his hands at all he just sat up straight and back again! We did a double take lol

Clever boy! I still have to put a cushion under Emma's legs to keep her leaning back, otherwise she would face plant.lol

Was just speaking to my friend who had the twins 6 weeks ago. Her daughter keeps rolling from her back to her front already! Problem is she's can't hold her head up so is just stuck. Poor baby. They were only due yesterday!
 

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I weighed Thomas today, he's 15lb 3 now. Did a massive greens coloured poo so had to change his outfit. Anyone else experienced that as you've introduced baby rice/food?

4 words for today, hot hot hot hot!!
 

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