Can I just make a suggestion relating to one of the first comments about you leaking onto your pj's, with my daughter (I lost a he'll of a lot of blood) but I didn't leak after the first night because I didn't use maternity pads because they was leaking, I bought some tenna pants (they're basically adult nappies) they're super soft absorbant all the way around, up the front and the back and they're disposable because I used those I was able to re-wear the pj's I'd taken so didn't have to take extra they were a life saver and I've packed them again this time, they're also not as bulky as the pads and a little more comfortable to sit down on if you have stitches like I did, I've also packed 4 vests, onsies, socks and bibs for baby a going home outfit, her teddy her big sister chose for her some newborn disposable nappies (I'm using cloth nappies at home but o can't be bothered with the hassle in hospital) a sun hat and a warm hat as they don't take up much room I'm not packing cotton wool as last time the hospital was practically throwing it at me I think that's all I packed for baby then for me and partner I've packed bikini incase of pool birth partners swim shorts because they're aloud in the pool with you if you want them to and they want to (he does) change of clothes for partner (he's in the army so if I go into labour and hes at work he can get changed out of uniform also good idea if you're partner is a builder or painter or something so they have clean comfortable clothes babys don't wait for a day off) also comfy clothes for me to go home in slippers Toiletries (toothpaste, toothbrushes for me and partner, deodorant for us both,shower gel, shampoo and conditioner , mouthwash, makeup remover, moisturiser, face wipes, hand sanitiser for when people visit baby (especially my nearly three year old, it's a sensitive skin one), dry shampoo, I bought them all in travel size from superdrug as they were on offer three for two and I have a bag for dirty washing, a hair brush, nursing bras and socks I think that's everything it's all fit in a small suitcase too then I have written a list for last minute things to pack when I go into labour, like, notes, makeup, straighteners, phone, chargers, camera, crystals (for crystal healing) snacks and drinks and heat packs for my back hope this helps x