HG and NVP thread

[Rhea]

I told him I wud text him when am ready to see him, il say Thursday I think, jst see him n hear wa he has to say, I don't wana break down cryin in front of him I wana be strong n act like I haven't needed him when infact av missed n wanted him more than anythin! But am not gona let him see that! My daughter is my number 1 priority now xx

 

[Mummy_midwife]

Aw Rhea, I can't believe how cold hearted he was to walk away on you being pregnant and ill, you are very strong and you have gone through a lot sweetheart, too much, I don't think I would have coped in your place if I am really honest :/
You can most definitely do this, another 19 weeks (or sooner ) and you will have your baby girl in your arms and you will find even more strength to go on.
I hope that he doesn't upset you too much, it must be so hard for you *hugs*

Keeptrying we haven't even narrowed down to anything names wise; we struggled to agree on our daughters name so if it is another girl we will have a hard time :/ I love your names, Amelia in particular but DH doesn't grrrr long road ahead lol
X

 

[jemfox]

Good idea rhea! What do u think he will have to say? Xx

 

[keeptrying14]

Thanks mummymidwife we decided if it's a boy hubby can decide and a girl I can so I'm sure it will all change lol rhea def keep us updated with what he wants to say to u , I want to punch him in the face for u lol xxx

 

[Rhea]

Keeptrying that madee laugh haha I will hav to try my beat not to punch him full force in the nose! Aw thank u mummy midwife I can't belive how cold hearted he has been to he is obvs a very selfish horrible man, I understand he was scared but to walk away from someone ur ment to love n say such cruel things well ther is just no exscuse for tha, jemfox I don't no what he's gona say am shocke by it, he txt sayn tha he still luvs me n he knows he's been out of order, I mean just out the blue like tha tho?! Am not sure what he is wanting to say, am gona be so nervous seein him :/ il defo let yous all know how it goes and what he has to say for himself!

How is everyone feelin tonyt sickness wise? Am currently burping up acid an having to spit it out how lovely ay ha, n these bloody pains still ther too xx

 

[jemfox]

I hope it goes okay and u do what makes you happy and what's best for you and your little girl

I'm okay today actually. Got a jacket potato in the oven at the min and had bath and washed my hair.....is anyone else's falling out in clumps?! Mines grown Soooo much since being preg but keeps falling out and getting quite thin now xx

 

[Rhea]

Thank you Hun
Aw am glad your feelin ok! I think these pains r makin me feel extra nauseous m this acid isn't helping, yes Hun av noticed when I brush and wash my hair loads will come out, I have quite a lot of hair befor pregnancy and it just looks the same really now xx

 

[jemfox]

I hate the acid reflux thing. I burp all the time lately, hardly ladylike!

I'm still so white and pale tho I look transparent!

Xx

 

[keeptrying14]

Haha I know what u mean about burping its so gross I can't control it either so embarrassing! Have u thought about ur birth yet? Whether u want a natural or drugs or water birth? Xxx

 

[Rhea]

Jemfox I look see thru am tha pale haha, ppl always counting how pale n not well I look bloody charmin ha,

Yes keeptrying av thought about labour n I want an epidural, I said to my midwife the midwife who is wi me when I gicnirth best not be like oh just try has and air coz I don't ant it, I suffer wi panic attacks and don't like tha woozy feelin really makes me panic, I want a nice easy labour wer I can enjoy it so defo epidural for me ha xx

 

[keeptrying14]

I know what u mean I heard gas and air can make u really sick and I def don't need any more of that! I wanted to try a water birth but u can't have pain relief with it so don't think that's for me lol. Think I'll do epidural too like u said atleast its semi enjoyable! Xxx

 

[Rhea]

Yee I think we deserve an enjoyable easier labour!! My friend had an epidural and slept thru her labour till it was time too push said it was amazing! I want tha ha, ppl say oh no go natural but is rather not am kinda petrified by the thought of labour don't think I could cope with it ha xx

 

[Mummy_midwife]

I know Rhea, he broke your heart and you show him how strong you are huni

I am forever burping I don't know how one person can do so much burping is embarrassing , my boy was saying 'mummy you must be really sick to burp so much" bless him.
Just feeling nauseous but not too bad right now, was worse earlier!

Gas and air didn't make me feel sick at all, it just felt like I had a few drinks too many, it was great I was shouting at midwives if they came near the gas as it was my best friend lol

I then had a complicated labour 1st time and had the epidural- best thing in the whole world!

Second time I just had gas and air and it was brilliant as I was up and and about straight away.

This time I am having a home birth... Only going to have gas and air available but must admit I am freaking out in case I want an epidural!

Eeek x

 

[keeptrying14]

Wow mummymidwife ur brave! I couldn't be that brave as I think I'd always want the option of stronger drugs! What do u think about water births in ur experience? Xxx

 

[Mummy_midwife]

I love water births, I laboured in water with my 1st and it was fantastic together with has and air but things went not right so got out the pool and epidural! With my 2nd I almost got a water birth but I pushed baby out whilst pool was being filled up :/
I think the world of water births, I have witnessed many and graduated with the highest numbers of water births in my class they are so calm, and the babies come out really chilled, many don't even cry as they are so calm when they are born in water !
I think request a pool but if you need drugs so be it, just come out and be happy

I am hoping I don't end up in the back of an ambulance at 7 cm screaming for an epidural lol I am not brave, just gonna go by my last birth which was quite straight forward and just gas and air , fx it will go well. In 2 minds whether to hire a pool, will see how I feel.

Are you going to a midwife or consultant led unit?
X

 

[Hoping for no2]

Oh rhea don't let him just butt back in after what he did to you - make sure its what you really want hon. Good luck.

I was a lot better yest but feeling sicky this morning so we'll see.

I'm asking for a c-section cause of complications from my previous birth. If they say no I reckon I'll def end up with an epidural as I couldn't manage last time at all - my pain threshold is non-existent!

Kanga cant believe you were only in for a few hours. They shouldn't have sent you home when you still have ketones in your urine, I think that's completely irresponsible. Hope the tablets are working hon xx

 

[Rhea]

Hiya girls aww mummy midwife I think a home birth wud be lovely I think u shud hire a pool out just incase u wana use it, I sed to me mum wer buying a swimming pool for the dinning room for early labour ha also I was gona hire a tens machine out aswel for early labour,

The pain in my right side has been soo bad all night it's really really hurting me even just lieing still I can't touch my stomach or nothing, does this sound like ligment pain, it feels more severe than that :/ xx

 

[keeptrying14]

Mummumidwife I am going to sound really. Dumb about the midwife ot consultant question lol. But I have a midwife in hospital so whatever catagory that falls into! It would be lovely having a home water birth very relaxing! I would love to try a water birth but guess we will see what happens on the day. Hope everyone is feeling ok today xxx

 

[Rhea]

Hoping for no2 Anoo I can't forgive him for wa he did to me, I will see him n Speke to him for the sake he is the baby's dad, duno wa he's gona say n duno how am gona react, aww Ino il b screaming for an epidural at 2 cm ha xx

 

[keeptrying14]

Haha me to rhea I'm am the worlds worst with pain! My hips are sore this morning nothing unbearable but right in the sockets if that makes sense? Thought tri 2 was ment to be better!! X x