HG and NVP thread

[keeptrying14]

Hi jemfox I know what u mean about a strain on the relationship think my hubby is getting pissed off now. He said ur in tri 2 now u should be better. It's so hard to explain to someone that has never experienced it. A bit personal but we haven't done anything for like 3 months and I think that's effecting things too, I feel bad but I just don't feel like it. R u the same, feel like I'm a bit of a freak now! Xxx

 

[Rhea]

Hiya girls, just got back I got my cervix checked to see if it was closed n thank god it was! I was so worried! Also listened to baby's heartbeat she was Lyein really low down, was so funny when they put the Doppler wer she was she gave an almighty boot the midwife started laughin sayin even I felt and seen that she sed I hav a naughty lil baby haha, she kept movin away from the Doppler too so dnt think she liked it ha, the doctor thinks it's spd and ligment pain she said that it can be extremely painful ligment pain, she said and it's your first and am only very slim aswell and right now the baby is having a growth spurt and everything is stretching n moving, am still in pain but I don't mind I can deal with it I was just scared about preterm labour! Ino I sound paranoid I just don't know what's normal and what's not,

How's everyone feelin? Xx

 

[keeptrying14]

So pleased rhea best u got it checked and all is ok. It puts ur mind at rest and stops u worrying. I'm ok not feeling my best today all I seem to be able to eat is dairy milk choc what is that all about lol cxxx

 

[Rhea]

Jemfox and keeptrying aww I cud imagine HG wud put a major strain on a relationship, if I was still wi the baby's dad I don't think I cud be having sex either it jst wudnt feel in the mood also Ino it's safe but I wud b so paranoid Havin sex, I hope everything's okay tho girls xx

Kanga ur hospitals policy on HG is disguisting! My hospital wudnt let me out till they sen me eat n drink n keep it down n also till I had no keetones. I have stayed in for 3 nights the longest, it's disguisting they don't seem to take HG so serious! If u ever feel so bad agen just get to hospital early in the morning so atleast u can stay all day on ivs, how u feelin now Hun xx

 

[Rhea]

Thank u keeptrying, ano I was so worried started crying in the hospital like a big wimp ha, it really hurt when she pushed down on my belly tho, am just gona get in bed n rest I feel so nauseous n tired aww well atleast u will be getting sugar from the chocolate Hun ha xx

 

[jemfox]

So glad everythings ok rhea! We not having the best pregnancies are we!! My little girls been kicking loads today!
We also chose a name.... Ella rose. What u lot think?

Keeptrying the me and hubby exactly same. He has quite a high sex drive whereas it's the last thing I want to do, then he tries to make me feel bad, major Tmi time..but he keeps jokingly asking for a blowjobs and I'm like SERIOUSLY?! Even if I sneeze I gag so there's noway in he'll that's happening. most of the time he's really supportive but my hormones don't help....he has kids from previous and I can help but think "oh so bet she had a easily pregnancy" I feel like such a bad person even thinking that!

Little rant there.....sorry!


Xx

 

[keeptrying14]

Ahh I love the name it's beautiful! Must make it feel more real calling her something rather than dot like I call mine lol! Exactly the same here, he keeps saying well why not try u might not be sick! I'd rather not find out if I'm honest! A hand job is as far as I can go now and I think he prob thinks he can do them better himself! He would never say that obviously but I can't help think it! I never thought of any of this before pregnancy just thought I'd go along like nothing's changed lol! It's nice talking to someone who is going thro it. I think he may explode if I don't do anything for the next 6 months lol xxx

 

[keeptrying14]

Rhea have u picked a name yet? Xx

 

[jemfox]

Haha I think I've forgotten how to give a handjob it's been that long! I'm just not in the mood. Atall. But I keep having proper kinky dreams....maybe I'm getting my kicks from them haha.

I'm now not talking to husband because tesco have sold out of Billy bear sausage.... My one MASSIVE craving. I'm hoping my silent treatment will persuade him to go to another tesco.

Xx

 

[Rhea]

Ella rose is a beautiful name Hun am now divided between luna and Ivy for my baby, aww ano we haven't had the best of Pregnancys have we Hun! We shud defo hav a easy labour hopefully!

Aww I understand it can be frustrating for men too but they just don't understand what we r going thru, oh god the thought of even givin a blowjob makes me wana puke! Haha the baby's dad actually text me on the weekend he wants to come see me sed he wants to talk to me,, I think I will actually punch him full force if I see him in person! He also has 3 kids already, and ur not a bad person thinkin tha Hun! I see woman who look so happy n healthy n I feel angry n sorry for meself n always say to me mum it's not fair why am I sufferin so much? I don't mean it to be nasty but who can blame us when we have had it so hard xx

 

[jemfox]

Love Ivy! That's gorgeous! And luna too.
Oooo why u think he wants to come and see u? Finally realised how much of a arse he is? U should meet him, spesh now uve had ya eyelashes and nails done as a sort of Fuck you lol.

I know what u mean, I sat and cried at my mums the other day. Sometimes feel like I've failed at the most naturalist thing in the world! Hate it!

Xx

 

[keeptrying14]

I know I envy the women in coffee shops eating and chatting. Just looking at it makes me wanna puke haha! Both luna and ivy are lovely and unusual so either will be perfect. Did he say what he wants to talk about? I can't imagine how hard it is, ur so strong. Even tho me and hubby are arguing a lot I don't know how id get thro without hi m. Do u have a big family? Need all the support. Have u decided about a birthing partner who it will be? Xxxx

 

[Mummy_midwife]

Hello girlies

Omg Rhea I am so sorry you went through such a frightening experience today, I am glad things are ok and you are not having baby yet did I read right that your ex is wanting to talk? After all he did ?????

Kanga can't believe how different hospitals are, mine insisted I stayed and I was having none of it until I was too ill to argue! I hope you feel better hun with the meds and after having fluids!

My hubby is climbing up the walls but I just don't have the oomph to do it :/ mb it will come back once this sickness goes?

I am gonna wait til my scan on Sunday and then concentrate in names for the gender as ATM it is really hard to agree on anything

X

 

[Rhea]

Aww thanks girls I luv both names to both pretty n unusual he sed he still luvs me and he knows he's been out of order but has been scared! N he needs to talk to me, I sed ur 31 years of age wi 3 kids am 22 wi my first back at my mums and had such a shit pregnancy wa r u scared about?!.. He thinks he can just cum back now n all can b forgiven he can think agen! Of course he is always welcome to be part of the baby's life he's her dad id never stop tha, the way he has treAted me tho he doesn't deserve the baby or me. It's so hard as I luv him to bits it's been extremely difficult copeing with it all, am so shocked tha now afta weeks of nothing he is saying all this out the blue??

Yes I have an amzinggg big family my mum, big sis n dad have been amzing I cudnt of coped wi out them, av wanted him tho more than anythin I hav wanted him to luv n hug me n look afta me av been so heartbroken n alone n now he gets in contact it's just makin me all confused and upset xx

 

[keeptrying14]

I know what u mean about names mummymidwife we have narrowed it down to Ted or Harry for a boy or Florence or Amelia for a girl. Xxx

 

[keeptrying14]

Rhea, that's so awful feel so sorry for u. Men can be so selfish sometimes. U are so strong and u have def done the worse bit now. U have got thro 20 weeks u can do the nxt 20 weeks no problem! See what he has to say but def keep ur distance for a bit, make him work for it cxxx

 

[jemfox]

I agree with keeptrying. I don't doubt it hurts like hell after what he did but he can't think he can walk in and out of yr life like that!
Make him work. If u do consider taking him back, make sure he proves it! Ur obviously one tough cookie though

Xx

 

[Rhea]

Keeptrying my friend had a lil boy 12 weeks ago an called him Harry it's such a lovely name, and Anoo he's really messin wi my head, yess am gona let him come Speke to me and that but I hope he isnt expecting to b greated wi open arms! Xx

 

[Rhea]

Jemfox I actually thought I was an emotional wreck and can't cope with anything but afta everythin av been thru am much stronger than I think we had a home together a life n was so happy n in love n he just lefts afta 3 years together n me bein pregnant and so ill, I was so close to his kids aswell I luved them n they luved me we had them all the time, I don't think I can forgive him for that, but he is her dad and I won't take that away frm him and I think he is lucky me being so laid back about letting him be involved wi The baby afta all the things he said about her and me! Telling me I best get rid of 'it' he makes my blood boil and wana just break down n cry when I think about him n wa he has done! Xx

 

[keeptrying14]

I really can't imagine what theat must have been like, especially when ur at. Ur most vulnerable too. When is he coming over? Xx