Heres what i know...

[Steelgoddess]

Hey girls,

I wanted to get this down as its some thoughts I have been having. Please do join in, maybe when we feel low we can look at it and gain something from it...

I know...

... that I didn't do anything to cause my miscarriages.
... that one day I will be pregnant again and will eventually hold a healthy baby in my arms.
... that miscarriage has nothing to do with whether I have done good or bad in my lifetime or whether or not i deserve a baby (My therapist helped with this one as i felt very strongly about it )
... that no matter how hard I cry or get upset I cannot have what could have been.
... that with each day i grow stronger and with my strength i can help others gain some positivity out of something so cruel.
... that i need to have lots of patience and take everyday as it comes
...That when I get pregnant again and have a baby Im going to cherish it and never take it for granted
...that although im not pregnant I do have something to live for and when it happens ill have more to live for
... that I am more focused now
... that the way I feel is temporary.


Ok thats all for me... Please feel free to add your thoughts

xx

 

[tracey 2]

wow that got me that is so lovely got me in tears now,

makes so much sense and i agree totally

 

[elviedee]

... I know that no matter what happens in the future, I've got people who love me and help keep me strong
... I won't always think about this 24/7, although I'll never forget
... What doesn't kill me will only make me stronger

xxx

 

[tinkerbellthepixie]

heya hun...that brings tears to my eyes! its sooo true

i know...
...that i will NEVER forget and the hurt will NEVER go...it just gets easier and a part of every day life
...that what doesnt kill me will only make me stronger...and this definately has made me stronger!
...that no matter how hard i try there will always be a bad day
...that time is becoming a healer
...that when i want to cry i have so many people to supposrt me...some of which i didnt know before or knew but werent great friends with
...that one day il cherish a baby so much more
...that life is worth living and every day is precious
...that id do anything to stop this happening to people like us even though there is nothing
...that im not the only one this has happened to and not the last
...that i want to support others like me

thanks for posting this its a lot of help =]

 

[Steelgoddess]

Great replies ladies!

I remember yours too

x

 

[sueannc]

Sat here in tears!!!!!! Great post! (happy tears btw)!

 

[happy-chick]

Fantastic thread guys

 

[Becs]

Having been through this I just wanted to say this thread rocks and send these for all of you who are in the thick of the hardest bit.

I'm thinking of you.

Becs xxxxx

 

[Rosebay]

......that the odds are in my favour of having a successful pregnancy next time
..... that this experience has taught me a lot about how amazingly strong women are
.....that this experience has taught me how effective online communities are in providing informal counseling and support (don't know what I would have done without you)
.....that a tiny amount of kindness can be the most important thing in the world when you're in emotional or physical pain and that I should remember that when dealing with others

Very positive thread Steelgoddess- thanks
+++

 

[trixipaws]

u are all so strong

 

[sarafet]

what a beautiful thread

xxxxxx