Help :(

[mummy24]

ok for the past week ive had all the symptons but 5 negative tests midwife says its a little too early at the mo but since 4pm today my belly has got heavier everytime i breath in an out it hurts when i go to bend down i find myself trying to stop myself an from the bottom of my belly round the hips to the back ive got bad cramp which has got worse pain i can deal with but now its affecting the top of my legs an groin anyone feel like this around 4weeks 3days? any help would be appreciated

 

[Naomi D]

Hiya Mummy24, Im almost a week late for af, and keep getting BFN's too.

Dont really know what to say, but to you.

I have had lower back ache, and the odd tummy twinge, but nothing else really. I just think you've gotta hang in there and wait to see what happens. I cant believe Im actually saying that though, as Im the worst person in the world at waiting - Im so impatient!

Good luck, I hope it's a BFP for you!

 

[mummy24]

hiya thank you so much for ur email

last night after i wrote this i started bleeding spotting i took 2 tests after an they came up with a faint line but i looked agaisnt the box this is also a positive reading so i left it till this morning still bleedin did another test and it was negative i rung the midwife up an shes told me this is normal just like a period an should end 1-2days my belly has now gone soft but i still have all the other symptoms! they said not to worry about the negative as i have 2 positives an its just my body changing till the bleeding stops then i have to test again! i just hope this is it i want this baby so much xxx

 

[Naomi D]

Aw, try not to worry sweetie, some bleeding can be normal during early pregnancy, especially around the time your period would normally be due. If it gets heavier, or lasts for more than 2/3 days, call you midwife again. It is still early days, so maybe wait for 2 days and test again. A positive line is definately a pregnancy, and you had two of those, so just try and stay cheerful, and look after yourself
Congratulations

 

[mummy24]

Aw, try not to worry sweetie, some bleeding can be normal during early pregnancy, especially around the time your period would normally be due. If it gets heavier, or lasts for more than 2/3 days, call you midwife again. It is still early days, so maybe wait for 2 days and test again. A positive line is definately a pregnancy, and you had two of those, so just try and stay cheerful, and look after yourself
Congratulations

thank you am just worrying now i think i started to bleed last night right up until then all the tests where negative so i thought if anys a good time to do it would be now so i tested an one lines very faint an the other you can see it but its faint too if i post a picture i know its not 100percent but maybe shed some light for me cos ive never found out am pregnant at such an early stage , i was just wondering if the bleeding may affect the pregnancy test at this stage should i wait to see if the bleeding stops? or even wait till it stops to try again? ive heard you the sayin " you cant get a false postive ive done 2 since and they are both negative am thinking this maybe because its in the blood i still feel pregnant just waiting for a midwife to call me back

 

[Naomi D]

Try not to get worried...if you can post a pic of the test I can give you my opinion? They say that 'any line is a line' so it does sound positive for you. Some bleeding is normal, but you dont really want it to get too heavy or go on for too long.

I hope the midwife can reassure you that everything is alright.

 

[mummy24]

well both images here x

 

[Naomi D]

YES! that is definately a Positive Line!
I would say you are up the duff missus Congratulations

 

[mummy24]

even tho this morning i took one an it was negative or is that the fact that the hgc hormones arent strong enough to be picked up till after implantation?

am overwhelmed if iam altho on the other hand my partner is now my ex

 

[Naomi D]

Oh Im sorry that things haven't worked out with your partner hun but if you get a positive even once and then a negative later, I would think that the negative is wrong, and that there is either a problem with the test or like you said, just not enough hormone being detected. I would pop along to your doctor for some advice and another test to make sure.
Good luck babe.

 

[mummy24]

thank you so much for all your help ill keep you posted just hope this bleeding dies down an stops friday fingers crossed xx

 

[mummy24]

ok is this a good sign i started to light bleed last night an got darker this morning an now its nearly gone this isnt my period as it lasts for around 4-5days an is a hell of alot more

 

[Nurse 26]

thats definatly looks positive!!! congrats!!!!!!! sorry about your OH, hope things work out for you

 

[mummy24]

thank you so much yes now i have light cramps near the hips but further down feels very heavy! its ok am a mum i can do it regardless

 

[Naomi D]

Yep, if the bleeding is stopping already I would say that it's not a proper af, and just spotting, which can be harmless in early pregnancy. If you're concerned though your doc or midwife should be able to put your mind at rest. Hope you are happy and make sure you pamper yourself!

 

[mummy24]

thanks Naomi

also my temperature over the past 2 weeks has been very high this NEVER happens when am due on i done get any period symtons either which has made it easy to guess i have more chance of being pregnant i just hope so prayin i am i miss the bump the kickin the scans the whole general baby thing its amazing an watching them grow up is even better fingers crossed would it be ok to test in the morning if the bleeding stops few hrs before i go to sleep? x

 

[mummy24]

naomi


i had a tiny bit of blood on the pad this morning but when i went to the loo the blood came out mixed with my wee ? is this anything i have to worry bout?

 

[Naomi D]

Hi Mummy,
I would try not to worry too much. You can still take a pg test even if you are bleeding, so you could take another one to put your mind at rest? You could also call the doc or midwife, and ask them. If the bleeding gets heavier today, I would go and see the doctor, but if it is only spotting I would try to rest as much as you can and not worry
Good luck, I hope you have a good pregnancy!

 

[mummy24]

thank you for ur reply!

it started off as period like for the first sort of 8hrs but was lighter in colour then went dark now its brown with a hint of red! my belly feels like light cramping still the midwife spoke to me an said if its implantation wait till its stopped bleeding then take a test as she said the hormones wont produce till after implantation an this varies with each pregnant woman as some dont pick it up till 8weeks cos they often mistake it for a period! so ill wait till next week i think to test again!

 

[Naomi D]

But you have already had 2 positive test results...I would say that you had enough hormone to show on an early response test. What day in your cycle are you? If you can wait then you are stronger than me! Dont get too down babe, Fingers crossed for you that everything is alright.