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[Laurenm]

Hi I have two children with my partner but I know I am pregnant again youngest is only 5 months, ive not told him because if I ever bring up that I missed my period he says hed be really angry if I were to be pregnant again and he doesnt want 3 kids under 3, im happy to be pregnant again just so scared to tell him x

 

[Linny1989]

Oh hun must be so hard for you. Your gonna need to tell him at some point. I dont no how would be the best way to tell him sorry. Your youngest is very young tho lol I have a 1 year old and a 2.5 year old and am 15 weeks pregnant so i no what its like to have your hands ful x

 

[Jaxx01]

I'm really sorry but it takes two to make a baby Hun, if is gonna be that angry about it he should have thought about it? I really don't mean any offence what I'm trying to say if that it's not just your fault. Hope you get it sorted xx

 

[Laurenm]

I said that to him, if I am its not just my fault I didnt want to go on the pill and hadnt even sat down to think about what else to use, he refuses to wear anything an its not as if I made him have sex with me lol ahh its so difficult I no hes right it will be so hard with 3 under 27 months. Il have to say again next week ive missed my period see what he says then come clean x

 

[ABC237]

Good luck hun! It isn't your fault anymore than his! Sure he'll come round eventually! Xx

 

[russellmuscle]

I second jax it takes two to tango.

I understand it's difficult for you and your OH isn't helping by saying he will be angry but you have to tell him..

Sorry not much help.

xxxxxx

 

[HopesDreams]

It ticks me off when men have that sort of attitude to a partner falling pregnant. If they're so against another baby, take responsibility & put something on it! It really is that simple. Its awful that you're feeling as you are. Take a deep breath, sit him down & tell him. Don't allow him to make you feel guilty. Lots of hugs!

 

[redbear]

I caught on when Alice was 5 month, luckily i didnt have the problem with DH he wanted another close anyway. It does take two and he isn't slack he could have used something not liking them is not a good enough excuse i dont like taking a pill everyday but there you go. Hopefully he will be supportive and know he can't blame you! x

 

[Linny1989]

I caught on when Alice was 5 month, luckily i didnt have the problem with DH he wanted another close anyway. It does take two and he isn't slack he could have used something not liking them is not a good enough excuse i dont like taking a pill everyday but there you go. Hopefully he will be supportive and know he can't blame you! x

wow thats close hun lol! But be so nice when they are older. be so close. x x

 

[redbear]

Hopefully, i wanted a close gap about two year apart but they will be 14 month apart, already can see the benefit though no running after Alice yet while pregnant and she hasnt got a clue so hopefully no jealousy! x

 

[Linny1989]

Yea i have a just turned 1 year old so she will be about 15-16 months i think, and i have a 2.5 year old x

 

[redbear]

Yeh a 12 month plus you have about 5 month left = 17 month gap is that right or is the ticker out? So happy to see other close mums makes me feel less odd lol x