have i made a mistake?

[Laura_C]

Having done both, telling people early on and keeping it a secret i have to admit I have felt less stress and pressure this time by keeping it a secret! Feels quite liberating that I have this little secret that no one else knows, well except for my immediate family. The rest of the family don't know just our parents and sisters. They would be our support if things did go bad so was happy to tell them. I actually love that no one else knows!! Was hard at first but now I'm almost 13 weeks and I just don't feel the need to tell people. Maybe after my scan today...