Had a miscarriage today :( :(

[fran.sudeep]

Hi i just wanted to get this off my chest really, i have unfortunately had a miscarriage today i started bleeding last tuesday and after lots of trips to the hospital to monitor my HCG levels, pain and bleeding i finally passed my baby tissue today For all you going through the same, god bless you at this sad time!! If it wasn't for my wonderful fiancé i really couldn't have got through this last week, he really is my rock, my world.

 

[Sunbeam638]

So sorry fran, it's a very sad thing to go through. Your OH sounds like a rock which is lovely. I hope your not in too much pain xx

 

[Nurse 26]

So sorry to hear this, hope you are ok xxx

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

Oh so sorry for you my dear xx its so numbing and shocking and painful isn't it xx

if you need to talk things through your in a great place, there are a few of us who have recently been through losses xx

much love xx

 

[fran.sudeep]

So sorry fran, it's a very sad thing to go through. Your OH sounds like a rock which is lovely. I hope your not in too much pain xx

Thank you, yes he really is, i feel so lucky to have found 1 in a million the pain keeps coming and going. I am optimistic about our future in having another baby, i really believe it will happen for us.

 

[fran.sudeep]

Oh so sorry for you my dear xx its so numbing and shocking and painful isn't it xx

if you need to talk things through your in a great place, there are a few of us who have recently been through losses xx

much love xx

Yes it is a nice place, i was in Tri 1 for a while and now im here, everyone is very helpful in every way they can

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

Its very difficult isn't it, i never ever expected to be here either... i got to 23 weeks before loosing my little girl. I am in TTC now too but still feel a massive connection to the girls in this section.

You will have as much support as we can give and through the TTC section too, when you decide to try again xx

Be kind to yourself and try not to put pressure on yourself to get through it all at once. These things take time and waves and all sorts x

 

[fran.sudeep]

Its very difficult isn't it, i never ever expected to be here either... i got to 23 weeks before loosing my little girl. I am in TTC now too but still feel a massive connection to the girls in this section.

You will have as much support as we can give and through the TTC section too, when you decide to try again xx

Be kind to yourself and try not to put pressure on yourself to get through it all at once. These things take time and waves and all sorts x

Your words were so comforting to me they brought a tear to my already wet eyes thank you. I think i'm still going to use this site, it really seems to help talking to people whi are feeling the same. Also my partner is very supportive of me Hope your ok after your loss .

 

[Corrinne37]

so sorry. xxx

 

[kedi376]

So sorry to read this, hope you're ok x

 

[fran.sudeep]

Thanks everyone

 

[laurat]

So sorry honey! Xxxx

 

[wiganlass2010]

So sorry hun xx

 

[dyscochick]

So sorry to hear this fran, and there are people here whenever you need them. Some of us have loitered here for a while since our mc's, there's never a wrong time to be here, because we don't forget even when we've healed. Its very sad but there is at least the knowledge that others understand and know how you feel. So glad your partner has been so good to you, mine was too and its so important to have that support

 

[Butterflykisses]

So sorry to read this hun. Hope you're ok. x

 

[CARNAT22]

Hi i just wanted to get this off my chest really, i have unfortunately had a miscarriage today i started bleeding last tuesday and after lots of trips to the hospital to monitor my HCG levels, pain and bleeding i finally passed my baby tissue today For all you going through the same, god bless you at this sad time!! If it wasn't for my wonderful fiancé i really couldn't have got through this last week, he really is my rock, my world.

Oh Fran - what horrid, horrid news!

So sorry that this had to happen to you.

My M/C is May took 3 weeks to occur and the waiting just made a horrid situation even worse.

I hope it is a little comfort that it did happen naturally (I know that is no consulation of course!)

When you feel strong enough you will get your sticky bean hun - we all will.

Keep well

xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[netty]

im so sorry to hear this, i hope this passes for you quicly and you have plenty of pain relief, i lost mine at 14 weeks hun, i kmow you must be heartbroken, we are all here for you sweety

 

[fran.sudeep]

Oh Fran - what horrid, horrid news!

So sorry that this had to happen to you.

My M/C is May took 3 weeks to occur and the waiting just made a horrid situation even worse.

I hope it is a little comfort that it did happen naturally (I know that is no consulation of course!)

When you feel strong enough you will get your sticky bean hun - we all will.

Keep well

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Thanks, i know what you mean, i know it sounds awful but i wish it just happened quick, as i have been through this before i knew what was happening to my body and the waiting was horrific. Mine took only 1 week it must have been horrible for you to have to wait 3 weeks.

Hope your doing well now.

 

[CARNAT22]

Thanks, i know what you mean, i know it sounds awful but i wish it just happened quick, as i have been through this before i knew what was happening to my body and the waiting was horrific. Mine took only 1 week it must have been horrible for you to have to wait 3 weeks.

Hope your doing well now.

For me the waiting just made things even worse - I literally had to out my life on hold for almost a month. Even getting out of bed some days was a struggle.

Alas my body did what it needed to do in the end and for that I am thankful.

I am not the same person and now 3 losses down the line I am booked into see a specialist but do you know what sweetie I am fine.

You will be too but give yourself some time and allow yourself to grieve properly.

We're all here for you

xxxxxxxxxx

 

[netty]

yeah the waiting is the worst, i waitied a week after my scan to lose baby and it was like someone had took my whole life away, i woul;dnt wish for anyone to go thru it big hugs hun and hugs to anyone who has been through this