Goodbye for a little while. **update first post**

[JoAnn&Aimee]

Update: I've already had a days break and I am feeling really good. Midwife has ordered me to have total bedrest as the braxton hicks are still happening and I don't want it to turn into real labour! Although if Aimee is anything like her mummy, she'll be early so lets hope she takes after her daddy and is late! I will be back home on Wednesday, possible earlier.
Thank you for all the lovely replies.

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As I wrote in a previous post, I have been getting really down recently. I've been under a lot of stress, I've been getting a lot of Braxton Hicks so I've been in and out the hospital, my OH has found out he is being made redundant in 3 months, my depression has made a nasty return for the worst and now I feel my friends have turned their backs on me as I am pregnant, therefore I cannot go out getting drunk every weekend and be 'fun' anymore.

I've decided to go back to my parents house for a few days. I need a total rest from everything. I am not shutting myself away or anything but I just need some time to myself and I feel I can get that at my parents. Although I have internet access at my parents house, I will probably be avoiding it so just incase I wanted to let you all know that I am not ignoring anyone and I will still be thinking of you all!!

I am really going to miss you girls, you give so much support without even realising it. I think I would like a headless chicken with this pregnancy if I didn't find these forums!

 

[Geordie&Bairn]

Hunny i hope your time away will give you the time to clear your had and come back a fresh
Your doing the right thing taking time out and going to you parents even now as an adult i still need my Mammy when im down


wish you all the best love and look forward to seeing you back hear soon

sarah

 

[katie05]

Aww hun, im sorry you feel so rubbish. You seem to have a lot to deal with at the moment, nevermind being pregnant. Hope your feeling better very soon and back on here.

(As for your friends, well they cant be very good ones so mabye your better off without them but i know thats easier said than done).

Take care.x

 

[Lulubelle]

Look after yourself and we'll all be here when you come back

 

[Princess_Puddles]

Aww hun, have a rest for a while and relax, your health and babies are the most important at the moment and come back when you're ready

 

[Suzie and Faith]

 

[BeckyJ]

take care hun x

 

[xJodieLoux]

Take care hun, hope you are feeling better soon

 

[Sandi4Paul]

take all the time you need for you. We wont judge.

Sandi

 

[Charlie:-)]

See you again soon

 

[debecca]

bless you Joann

Hope you feel better for a break

 

[soulem]

Hope the time does you good and you come back chilled!! Take care hun!!

 

[fuffins1981]

Take care hun. We will be thinking of you. I hope your rest helps a lot

 

[Moofa]

Take care xxxxx

 

[sarah2807]

Take care hunnie. I hope the break and rest helps you.
Come back and see us soon.

 

[keli]

xx

 

[JoAnn&Aimee]

As for your friends, well they cant be very good ones so mabye your better off without them but i know thats easier said than done

Maybe I am being too sensitive about it all. They can go out and have fun while I get to sit about like a bloated whale but I do feel a tad left out these days when it comes to get togethers with my friends at the moment.

 

[fuffins1981]

Glad things are feeling a lot brighter for you already

Remember, we are all always here when you need us

 

[Geordie&Bairn]

Gald your feeling more upbeat already 8) have fun and enjoy relaxing at your parents and see you back here on wednesday

sarah

 

[ANNA27]

glad you're feeling better hun, see you back on here soon