up Devon did this, we started weaning at 4 mths and so he had a head start, but he only started eating lumpier stage 2 happily about 2 weeks ago at 7 mths, so it took a while. I basically stopped using the puree thing and used our minichopper thing and that made the bits slightly lumpier, but not as much as stage 2. Just try to reduce the gap between stage 1 and 2 and Poppy will get the idea.
I mash potatoes, veg and actually he was fine with normal rice grains!! how i'm not sure, perhaps because they are slippy? he has just started having those baby pasta stars , and they are great too no problem, which I thought they might be. If it makes you feel better I have only just chopped one normally family meal up for him to join us on. My mate brought us a plastic spoon set from tesco (not Tescos own, another make) and it has a curly spoon and and straight spoon and a masher spoon, and it's brilliant! You can mash tiny portions to make them smaller / smoother, best used when food /veg is heated up ready for feed as makes it easier, but brilliant.
Were a bit behind on finger foods, he will only take, banana (if I hold it!) bread, biscotti, he will bite on apple, (If I hold it, too slippy) but has lots of teath so takes too huge bits off and then gags.
When he has had his dinner and pud , I give him a biscotti to eat then, so we are keeping his hand in at self feeding! Going to work out some better stuff for him soon.
You could try more sauces , as they smooth the lumps in the food a bit more , make it easier to swallow? Devon's fav is my homemade cheese sauce , and the pasta is eaten with spagetti bolonaise sauce , which I have chopped up quite small /smooth in the mini chopper, cause it's ok as the lumps are in the pasta.
Oh and try overcooking the pasta the first few times! makes it a bit more soggy.
(I freeze mine once cooked in ice cubes to save faffing - and rice!) looks well strange in the freezer