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I have always been a strong advocate of asking for help from your gp when you feel you need it.
However, this time I am frightened that asking for support will come back to bite me.
I've always had a weaker lower back with a lot of sciatic pain in my back and hips. I'm only 21 weeks pregnant but I'm already starting to struggle with pain. I'm due to go back to work on Monday after 7 weeks off and I know that I'm going to struggle even more being on my feet all day, especially as my pregnancy progresses.
But I'm afraid to ask for help this time as i had a higher bmi starting out. I have my heart set on a water birth, but given that the nhs guidelines state I may not be allowed one due to my BMI, I am frightened to put something else on my chart that they might use in the case against me having one. I asked the midwife about water birth and she said it would be up to my consultant. I'm frightened to ask for help but I am really struggling. It's quite painful, especially trying to sleep (even with a pillow between my knees).
Has anyone experienced anything similar. Any advice?
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However, this time I am frightened that asking for support will come back to bite me.
I've always had a weaker lower back with a lot of sciatic pain in my back and hips. I'm only 21 weeks pregnant but I'm already starting to struggle with pain. I'm due to go back to work on Monday after 7 weeks off and I know that I'm going to struggle even more being on my feet all day, especially as my pregnancy progresses.
But I'm afraid to ask for help this time as i had a higher bmi starting out. I have my heart set on a water birth, but given that the nhs guidelines state I may not be allowed one due to my BMI, I am frightened to put something else on my chart that they might use in the case against me having one. I asked the midwife about water birth and she said it would be up to my consultant. I'm frightened to ask for help but I am really struggling. It's quite painful, especially trying to sleep (even with a pillow between my knees).
Has anyone experienced anything similar. Any advice?
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