Thanks guys
No i wasnt going to take it further, i dont see what good it will do... are you really supposed to stay for 6hrs after?? We were thinking after thats probably why they wouldnt give me any pain relief as if id had i'd prob had to stay longer, so they probably had it planned from the start!
I am a little upset by it as its supposed to be a special time and i just felt like an burden that was taking up a bed, there was no compassion or support which i think means so much. It doesnt take much to say congratulations after does it.
Anyway, whats done is done i suppose, maybe thats how things go with your second.
Em - yes it was East Surrey, wish i had gone to princess royal
Beany - Aimee has been really good so far, not too bothered and likes to give her cuddles and kisses (without being asked) the only thing she doesnt like is when she cries, she gets upset by it.
Am feeling a bit guilty atm as Freya is feeding ALL the time so i hardly have any time with aimee. (btw welcome back and congrats!)
Keely - dont worry it will be fine, i def recovered better and it was less traumatic than the first but have to say the pain was worse (only cause had no let up)