Finally feeling movements!!

[Jayceesmumma]

Thanks ladies I'll ask someone about rlt..
They reckon it's spd but she said there's no point in trying for physio coz the waiting list is at least 5weeks... So it's just tough crap really.. Gotta sit in pain! If it's still bad in a few days and I can't cope I'll go back to gp

 

[BevG]

so basically they said you had candida (sp?) and thats it.
bollocks, and as to spontaneously developing spd it dont feel like contractions or cause them as far as im aware. id deffo want a second opinion or go to my gp.

 

[lewisca]

bexybun there is so much info out there and often conflicts its ridculas !!! I trust babycentre though and it goes along with the info on my rlt teabags !!!

Jayceemamma SPD is the pits !! its shame bout the physio cos thats who i got my belt off. just keep your knees together when moving, dont put weight throiugh 1 leg dont push a trolley or lift the girls too much and rest !! it does go when u have the baby. but doesnt explain the contractions though unless they were some freeky bh !!!! which i douht xxxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

so basically they said you had candida (sp?) and thats it.
bollocks, and as to spontaneously developing spd it dont feel like contractions or cause them as far as im aware. id deffo want a second opinion or go to my gp.

Yeah I think that's what it was..
I didn't think it could develop that quick either.. Plus the contractions I was having were too strong for bh!! My normal strong bh registered at 25 on monitor.. These were 85! Hence the steroids they gave me.. I just wanted an answer and it seems after being in hospital since Thursday away from my kids, putting everyone out.. I've got nothing!! Just a cop off if u ask me!!
I'm happy to be home in my own bed.. Just gonna struggle with the kids and it's not fair on them.. I've not seen them yet I asked mum to pick them up n dinner etc one last time while I try n sleep to build up my energy n rest my pains (still bh, pressure n back pain)
She's on her way now so I'll see my babies within half hr miss them so much gonna find it hard not to cry lol!!

There was +4 blood and +2 leu in my urine so maybe I do have a bit of an infection or something too so will take the pessary she gave me tonight..
I'll try and rest and do things as if I've got spd to see if it helps at all.. May even buy a support belt.. If I can't bear it still after a couple of days I'm gonna go gp..
Got an antenatal appointment booked for 13th already from the other week so I can raise my concerns there if need be..

I still have to go every day to have ctg monitoring for as long as I've got reduced movements.. When I'm happy with it I can stop going.

Such a long week!!

 

[lewisca]

bless ya hun enjoy your cuddles girls will b so glad to see u !!! at least they r keep an eye on u of sorts !!! just a shame u still have no real answers after all this time !!! hope the pessary works and belts do help but never truely free from pain when u have SPD. Its good u already have an appointment booked hopefully they can help with things. just have lazy days while the girls r at school. thats what i do when Ethan is at school and Kian at nursery 3 days a week xxxxxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Thanks for everything babe!! They've just pulled up outside I'm so excited!! Feel like crying but happy tears!!!

 

[Iriki]

Yay that you're home with the girls but stinky poo to how they treated you
Just make sure that you try and get as much rest as possible and hopefully things will settle down very soon x

 

[lewisca]

Thanks for everything babe!! They've just pulled up outside I'm so excited!! Feel like crying but happy tears!!!

Enjoy some time with the hun will pm u my number just incase u ever want or need it. get some rest tonight in your own cosy bed xxxxxx

 

[littlemiss83]

Awwww

I'm so glad your back in the comfort of your own home. Try & get as much rest as you can & see how you feel tomorrow. Try & do as little as poss....leave the housework ect your health is more important! If ur still doing the school run, do it & relax the rest of the time.

Hope your enjoying your night up cuddled up with your babies, I cant imagine what you've been through having to leave them and for what seems like no good reason. Better safe than sorry though I suppose! You did the right thing by going & seeing it thro.

 

[Susanne]

At least you're back home now - enjoy the time with the kids and try and put the whole frustrating experience behind you (easier said than done, I know). I understand how pissed off you must feel, but I suppose at the end of the day it is a good thing that you didn't have a preterm baby, very soon now you'll have a lovely term baby to cuddle and help you forget about these crappy few days!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Thank you all was lovely having cuddles again gonna watch a film in bed with my babies before bedtime tonight

Still struggling with pain and tightenings but I do feel better at home.. Waiting for my mum to come and drop me at hosp for monitoring (parking is ££££) then helping me do food shopping

Done the pessary last night and omg it really hurt!! Is it supposed to be that tender inside??!! I almost cried when they examined me and I've been examined and smear tested so many times.. Even my cervical treatment didn't hurt like that!! I still think something isn't right down there.. I couldn't get the pessary up too far (tmi) coz I actually felt sick it hurt so much!!
If it's not better in a couple of days I'm going mw..

When I had cin3 cells I had an examination and swabs done by the 'specialist gynecologist' at gp... She said all was fine etc etc.. I KNEW something wasnt right... So I pushed it for another smear and thats when I had abnormal cells.. Found out I was preg with Ellie and was suspected ectopic so admitted to hosp.. A STUDENT examined me and I asked her if she could see anything (that the specialist missed) and she said it was very clear there was a large area that was inflamed an didn't understand how anyone could miss it... So I had to wait til after I had Ellie and healed etc before I could be tested again and I had cin3 cells.. Doc said I was very lucky to catch it when I did!!! I wouldn't have made my daughters second birthday if I hadn't pushed for more tests.

This is why when I know there's something wrong I have to get it checked!

 

[lewisca]

hope it is just thrush hun. but u know your body and history so if your not happy push for something to b done. hope monitoring goes well xxxx

 

[Sarah13]

Hi, sorry not been able to catch up with the nightmare you've been having til now but hope everything is ok and you feel better soon xx

 

[Geminiblue]

hi hun I hope everything is ok and that you are ok xxx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Hi, sorry not been able to catch up with the nightmare you've been having til now but hope everything is ok and you feel better soon xx

I think it's understandable given your little surprise!!! Congrats again babe how r u feeling??

I hope it's just thrush too.. Gonna defo get it checked tho coz an infection can be bad!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Nearly 7 thousand views and over 500 replies.. thank you all so much for your support through that difficult time for me.. i could never have got through it without you all.. i hope somehow i can support you ladies the same way

 

[lewisca]

just glad u r home and with your girls hun. how u been feling ? xxxx

 

[pinkyprincess]

I think were all glad everything's ok!!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Thank you
Im feeling better now im home with my girls.. struggling to walk for a long time without it hurting and finding it hard to manouvre lol but i think all that is normal for pregnancy now.. defo not in as much pain as i was in before.. still having bh but no way near as strong as in hosp! still getting monitored daily for reduced fetal movements, but they seem to be happy with the results so thats a good thing
Ive checked my weight again and put it on my graph on my app and its shot right up! so weird! people have been starting to mention how big i am and how they think im about to drop not just over 5 weeks left!! whereas before i had to convince people how far gone i was coz i was so small!! i dont know whats going on lol!! baby always measured bang on dates etc but now its a week ahead..? mad!

Having rlt seems to have helped with the bh tbh or its a coincedence lol!

how are you ladies doing?

 

[lewisca]

glad u r feeling better and lo behaving !! been teeping an extra eye on here to check on u !! doing ok struggling to walk too and forcing food down my neck to get this lo to grow better !! time seems to have slowed down too !! xxx